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Should I Text My Ex Boyfriend
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If you are wondering should I text my ex, chances are you want him back. You are looking for a reason to make contact and you sit there and think what could you text him to make him want you back or to get his attention. You are hoping he will reply and somehow make you feel better. The fact is if he broke up with you pretty recently, he will see right through about any text you send. He will see it as the lame excuse it is. This does not portray you in a very attractive light to say the least.

If you are going to text your ex, timing is everything. Do it too soon and you may very well kill any chances of reconciliation. It may put pressure on him and pressure does not endear you to a man. He may feel guilt. If you want an ex back, causing him to feel negative feeling won't do it. It's best to wait after a break up to text him and I don't mean a day or two. I mean weeks. Give your emotions and his time to cool down. Texting him when emotions are high will only make matters worse.

If you do wait and text him, it's important to know what to text him to rekindle those old feelings of when things were good. Men really do remember the good times over the bad time after some time has passed. If you text the wrong thing, you may just be handing him a reminder that yes he did the right thing by ending it. It's critical that when you text him it's not to talk about the relationship or what went wrong. There are right and wrong things to say in a text. Say the wrong thing and he may not even answer. Ouch. Say the right thing though and you can very likely open back up the communication.

If you are texting him in order to get answers or just to reach out and touch him, step away from the phone. This does not get him back. This is you wanting to feel better. You are hurting and your ego needs validation. The opposite is very likely to occur should you text your ex. He may not answer. He may answer and be very brief. Chances are good if you text him too soon and too much, you will do more harm than good.

There are ways to text your ex. I have heard some even say that if you do it right, you can text your ex back with the right timing and the right text messages.


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veno114  

i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 6 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 3 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted templeofgreatspell@yahoo. com for the return of my husband to me,he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 3days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr Okoase casted on him that make him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Okoase for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back thier husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact Dr Okoase on his email address via: templeofgreatspell@yahoo. com . and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay. ANGELA BRUSE

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  about 1 year ago
veno1  

i need to share this with whole world ...here is my story since january this year i cant get over one guy who was for a year in relatioship with me and than ..lost his interest...well on the other side i end it up badly hurt and medly in love ...i found Dr Okoase and ask him to cast spell for me...case is extreamely complicated all this waiting time was terrible for me i was bothering Dr Okoase with patetic mails stupid questions and he was always there to reply to help to sugesst another sollution ...It was not easy for me but still i think i go over a line and used his patiency so so much ...and then when i was thinking everything is lost i got his text...he regret it all and he want me back....i m shocked and bit lost ..dont know what is a next but THIS MAN MANAGE BORN AGAIN ALREADY TOTALY DED STORY..TO BRING ME BACK IN TO A LIFE ...thank you Dr Okoase for everything you have done for me i will always ask for your help in advice with all obstacles in my life thank you for beeng trully here for me ..please contact this great spell caster on his email address: templeofgreatspell@gmail. com cause truely he is a great one. Veno Whyte

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  about 1 year ago
veno  

i need to share this with whole world ...here is my story since january this year i cant get over one guy who was for a year in relatioship with me and than ..lost his interest...well on the other side i end it up badly hurt and medly in love ...i found Dr Okoase and ask him to cast spell for me...case is extreamely complicated all this waiting time was terrible for me i was bothering Dr Okoase with patetic mails stupid questions and he was always there to reply to help to sugesst another sollution ...It was not easy for me but still i think i go over a line and used his patiency so so much ...and then when i was thinking everything is lost i got his text...he regret it all and he want me back....i m shocked and bit lost ..dont know what is a next but THIS MAN MANAGE BORN AGAIN ALREADY TOTALY DED STORY..TO BRING ME BACK IN TO A LIFE ...thank you Dr Okoase for everything you have done for me i will always ask for your help in advice with all obstacles in my life thank you for beeng trully here for me ..please contact this great spell caster on his email address: templeofgreatspell@gmail. com cause truely he is a great one. Veno Whyte

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  about 1 year ago
asnopm  

my husband left me 4 months ago and move to another state leaving me 2000 miles apart from him . I have tried everything possible i am very sad and hurt suddenly he started to hated me it seems one sec he love me the next he hate me when ever we connect he gets really angry for no reason and in a big rush and can't breath around me and as soon as were apart he is fine he says i am very hot and it makes him uncomfortable to hold me all i know is i sleep sleep sleep when were together cant seem to wake up when he is away i am awake something is wrong.But just some few weeks ago, someone introduce me to this spell caster on templeoflove1@)gmail.)com and the spell caster did a reunify spell for me, just as i am writing now, if my husband dont see me in a second he would rather do everything to meet me. I really want to thank the spell caster for his great works spell. i owe him.you can met with him on templeoflove1(@)gmail(.)com.

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  about 1 year ago
asnopm  

my husband left me 4 months ago and move to another state leaving me 2000 miles apart from him . I have tried everything possible i am very sad and hurt suddenly he started to hated me it seems one sec he love me the next he hate me when ever we connect he gets really angry for no reason and in a big rush and can't breath around me and as soon as were apart he is fine he says i am very hot and it makes him uncomfortable to hold me all i know is i sleep sleep sleep when were together cant seem to wake up when he is away i am awake something is wrong.But just some few weeks ago, someone introduce me to this spell caster on templeoflove1@)gmail.)com and the spell caster did a reunify spell for me, just as i am writing now, if my husband dont see me in a second he would rather do everything to meet me. I really want to thank the spell caster for his great works spell. i owe him.you can met with him on templeoflove1(@)gmail(.)com.

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  about 1 year ago
anna 1  

i miss my ex boyfriend so much but i dont know what should i text him to make him get back to me please i need help )":

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  about 1 year ago

Texting him won't get him back Anna

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  about 1 year ago
Jessica 1  

2 years ago I dated this guy for a few months but ended it because he was pulling away and still seeing other people. After that, he got into a multiyear relationship. I moved on but just ended things with serious bf. about the same time, he sends a text out of the blue asking about me/thinking about me, etc. we go back and forth for many months via text trying to meetup for a drink. It was soon for me then he asked again. We went out said we would do it again, he sent text the next day now silence, have not heard from him. Thoughts?

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  about 2 years ago
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