If something is askew with your man, you are probably confused. Maybe he isn't calling as much, maybe he stopped texting you good morning, or maybe he just feels distant. If you can relate to any of these, you are wondering if these are signs he is going to break up with you.

This can very well be signs he is going to break up with you. Sometimes it can just be a case of he is taking you for granted, but that really isn't much better than a break up. Both are saddening. How do you know the difference then. What is the difference in the signs of a break up over that of a simple case of him taking you for granted.

If you are hearing him say "It's not you, it's me", this is a sign of a break up. He is letting you down easy and possibly hasn't gotten the nerve to tell you yet. His guilt is in the way or maybe he wants to keep you around as an option. If he has given you this line though, it is a real live break up line. Break up may be ahead.

Another famous copout that guys use is this. "I am not ready for a relationship". If he tells you this, get ready. It's a true sign of a break up. When a guy tells you this, there is something he isn't feeling it with you. This is a tough one, but what he means is this. "I am not ready for a relationship with you". Ouch I know, but if you heard this line, believe him, he doesn't want a relationship.

If he is suddenly acting or doing things differently, like cancelling dates, not calling when he said he would this is a break up sign as well. When men start losing interest, they find other things to do that do interest them. They are trying to do the slow fade until they get it figured out. Prolonging having to tell you the truth.

If you man is going out more, doing things without you more and not making time for you he very well may be exploring to see if the grass is greener on the other side. He may be looking to see if anything better is out there. This is no reflection on you really, it's just the way men are. They are hunters and it's their instinct. It's also a break up sign and a sign that he may not love you the way you love him

Regardless of the signs, break up is hard. It can suck the life out of you trying to figure it all out, playing it over and over in your head. If you think you are heading for a break up, prepare now. Be able to hold your head up when it's all said and done and walk away with your dignity.