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Some Questions To Consider If Your Boyfriend Wants You Back
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Some Questions to Consider If Your Boyfriend Wants You Back

Relationships do not always go as planned and although everyone that get involved in hopes to have one that comes out of fairy tale, there are times that they can just turn out to be a nightmare. For your boyfriend to want you back, it means both of you have already broken and there are real issues that you will have to handle since no breakup is really without a reason. So what do you do if your boyfriend wants you back? There are some things you may have to consider before deciding on which path to take.

What was the cause of the break up?

This is a good question. You may have to weigh the answer carefully and see whether you can still live with it. In some relationships, the cause of the fallout in the first place might just make it impossible for you to go back to him even when your boyfriend wants you back. What may be forgiven by another person may not be something you can easily forgive, and even if you do it might still stand as a wedge because of the very act that was committed.

The cause of the break up is very important. If you were the one at fault and your boyfriend now wants you back, you may not find it very difficult to get back into a relationship with him. The reason you both split may also be something you have gotten over, and in such cases, it would be easy to start afresh with a boyfriend that wants you back.

What is your present relationship status?

Aside from the reason you broke up with your boyfriend in the first place, your present relationship status is another thing that will play a key role in whether you want to get back with an ex-boyfriend that wants you back. There are people who will not even consider it for a second if they have moved on to other relationships, no matter how persistent or sincere there ex is. But a lot might depend on whether the current relationship you are in is something you have invested in and you are really emotionally involved with.

Have you really moved on?

We have to be frank about this; there are people who are in current relationships that are still pining away over a lost love or past relationship they had with someone. Being in a current relationship is a sign that you are moving on from your past relationship.

But if you have moved on with your life whether you are dating someone or are currently single, you might not be willing to get back with your boyfriend who wants you back.

Your willingness to get back together with your ex boyfriend depends upon the depth of your past relationship and current relationship. If he was your soul mate, you can’t replace him with another guy in your life.

It is your decision to make but you just have to be sure that you boyfriend wants you back, you also want him back.


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