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Stop Wasting Time Doing Things That Wont Get Your Ex Back – Do This Instead
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There are many things you can try that will have no effect, or even a negative effect, on your efforts to get your ex back. You don't want to waste valuable time, effort, and attention doing these things. You want results that work and you don't want to spend one more day away from your ex than you have to. Fast results are really wonderful but you should also realize that rushing in can cause countless delays. It's a good idea to spend a little extra time on the front end in order to maximize the potential of your efforts to save your relationship and get your ex back after a breakup.

When your ex broke up with you it broke your heart. More importantly, it made you realize just how good the two of you really were together. Maybe you realized mistakes that were made along the way, by both of you, and you just want to make your ex see that you can still be so good together. The thing is, your ex isn't exactly taking your calls at the moment. Or your text messages. Or your emails. In fact, your ex has pretty much headed for the hills and left you crying in your beer, Haagen-Dazs ice cream, or whatever comfort food or drink you've turned to.

Now that you've stopped crying, you're ready to take action. You want to DO something to save your relationship but have no idea where to begin. You know that you need to get your ex to hear what you have to say so you can plead your point. This is where a lot of people mess up. You know in your heart that there is hope for your relationship and you just need to get your ex back before it's too late.

In this instance, many people go completely in the wrong direction. They try all kinds of wild and crazy things to get noticed by their exes. The thing is that they do get noticed in a very bad way. You don’t want that to be the case with you. So, what should you do? You need to hit your ex where he or she isn't expecting it. You need to state your case in a second chance letter. This is something your ex definitely won't be expecting and will be the perfect opportunity for you to plead your case – without sticking your foot in your mouth due to nerves or a rush of emotion.

You can make the same mistakes that others in your position are making and run the risk of losing your ex completely. Or, you could try something new that is sure to get the attention of your ex in a good way. The choice is yours but before you make it, it's a good idea to learn more about writing the perfect second chance letter and what you MUST say to make it work by watching this free video: http://www.magicofmakingup.com.


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