When a relationship between a couple ends it can be a very hard thing for both the boy and the girl to take.

Sadly very few breakups happen on good terms because there is normally one person who still wants to be in the relationship when the other one doesn’t want to be anymore.

If both people agree it isn’t right anymore then it can be far easier for both people however this is rare.

Once the break up is over it is a very regular thing for the boy to want to get his girlfriend back.

It doesn’t matter whether it was the boy who broke off the relationship or if he was the one that was dumped; either way there is a strong chance that within say a week he will want to get back together with her.

Getting back together with your ex can be a very tricky business but if you know the right things to do then it is possible for it to happen and for the relationship to bloom again.

There are a number of things which make getting back together easier or harder depending on how the couple reacted after the break up.

One of the worst things which can have happened is if either of you want on the rebound or tried to make the other person jealous by going out with anyone you could find.

Although this often does work in making the other person jealous, it will also make them resent you, think that you are pathetic and not trust you and these are not good things to try and build a relationship upon afterwards.

The easiest way to get back together with your ex is if you can make sure that you keep talking to the girl after you have broken up so that you don’t have to pop up out of nowhere when you pluck up the courage to try and win her back.

The actual things which you need to do when you have decided you are going to try and win her back are many but some work better than others.

Hopefully since you have presumably been with your girlfriend for a while before you broke up you should know her very well and this will help when trying to win her back.

Some girls like simple sitting and taking to work things out and after that you can try to get back together whereas others prefer big romantic gestures, possibly in front of everyone you know to show how much you care about.

However you need to make sure that the girl is going to appreciate your actions because otherwise you could embarrass or annoy her which will not help you in your cause.

Things such as flowers are always a good starting block when trying to work things out, because no matter how angry a girl is a bunch of pretty flowers will almost always improve her mood and they will show her that you care about her still, especially if you have managed to pick out her favourite flowers because this little touch will not go unnoticed by her.

Try to make things as personal to her as you can, for example if you are going to buy her a card to say that you are sorry for the pain you may have caused during the break up, don’t just get a card with a pre written message inside and a boring picture on the front.

Try to get something that would relate to her, like a picture of a place you have been on the front and the message inside should be handwritten by you and mean something! These little tips cod be the difference between success and failure!

Hopefully, all these things will help you to get your girlfriend back. I am eager to know your thoughts on comment section.