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To Get Back With Your Ex After Sleeping With A Friend, Or Not?
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That.....is the question. Setting the joking aside for a moment, you're here because your ex girlfriend is currently sleeping with a noble friend of yours.

You may ask yourself two things: 1) What drove your ex into sleeping with your friend? 2) Why didn't your friend do anything to interject and prevent this from occurring?

You're more than likely to be eager to have both questions answered, especially the second one. One thing to not do is question yourself as a person, nor compare yourself with whichever friend your ex decided to exchange snores with.

Needless to say, the act that Bonnie (your ex) and Clyde (your friend) committed is unscrupulous and just downright awkward.

It would be best if you were to have both culprits meet with you. This is so that you could effectively express how disappointed and upset you are towards the situation. View this as killing two birds with one stone, but take out the killing part.

Although, you may feel some sort of Kill Bill aggression towards your ex and friend. It's important to negate whatever anger's contained within you. Be calm and mature throughout the meeting. If you behave the opposite, then matters will become worse between you and the other party.

As the meeting progresses, make sure to pour every microscopic detail out of your mind. Additionally, allow your ex and friend to finish what they have to say. Don't forget to widen your ears and listen! Respectfulness is a significant subdivision of maturity.

If you show someone else respect, then they're more than likely to regurgitate the same mannerism. They may or may not have a valid reason as to why they tangooed. If there isn't one, then you can put on Uma Thurman's shoes and reenact the scene where she turns the Crazy 88 gang into minced meat.

Once the meeting finally comes to a closure, you're left in deciding whether to forgive your ex and possibly reestablish the relationship you once had with her, or not. Of course, you can't leave your friend out of the picture.

If you're the type of person who complies with the "second chance" deal, then follow that big heart of yours. If not, then need I say more? In whatever way you come to a conclusion, consider everything that was said between you three. Ultimately, you then consider what's best for you, while avoiding the three most common mistakes you're likely to make after your breakup with her.


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