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What To Say To Your Ex To Get Him Back
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What to Say to Your Ex to Get Him Back

If you're with someone for a long enough time, they become a fixture in your life. After a breakup (especially an angry, messy one) you can end up desperate to talk to him again, and bring him back into your life.

What a lot of people don't realize, however, is that there are words to get him back that they should be using... and a whole lot of words that will send him running in the other direction.

To start with, “Goodbye” is very rarely actually “Goodbye.” You and your ex will end up talking again, and you need to be prepared. The first thing you need is to eliminate the following phrases from your interactions:

  • “I've been thinking about things, and I just wanted to say...”
  • “I didn't get a chance to tell you that...”
  • “Things just haven't been the same...”

Or any other variations thereof. You might think that showing your ex how much you love him by showing him how much losing him has hurt you is a good way to bring him back, but it's essentially a guilt trip.

Besides, no man wants to be with someone who's emotionally blackmailed him into a relationship. Not only are these not words to get him back, they'll end up showing him that your life revolves around the breakup, and make him lose interest in you.

So, what should you say, instead? The key here is to act relaxed and happy, even if you aren't necessarily feeling it. If you can fake it until you make it, your ex will be left wondering how you were able to recover so quickly and easily, and jealous that you've been able to move on with your life.

Any words to get him back should be light and casual, and avoid delving into any topics that might steer the conversation toward your breakup. Remember, the key is to stay positive here, and remember that any man should be lucky to count himself in your inner circle. Try sticking to topics like:

  • Any new hobbies you've picked up.
  • Your job.
  • Your pets.
  • Your favorite music and TV shows.
  • Any other topics that would be appropriate for a friendly, casual chat.

These words to get him back might seem a little backward when you're gunning for a way to have your relationship back the way it was as soon as possible, but they're important. The key here is to intrigue your ex and create and air of mystery-- by staying casual, he'll be left wondering what's going through your mind, and naturally drawn to your positivity.

He'll end up wanting to talk to you more often, and come up with little excuses to see what you're up to now. Even though they might not result in the kind of emotionally-heavy conversation that you're hoping to have with your ex, these words to get him back will slowly rekindle his interest in you.

The question 'What to say to your ex to get him back?' won't bother you much once you follow the tips which are given in this article.


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