This Article is About
taking time
many things
Whats The Best Way To Handle A Breakup?
Join 1000's of Authors at StreetArticles Today!

Whats the Best Way to Handle A Breakup?

When you've gone through a breakup and you feel lost on getting through it, then there aren't so many things you can do. Of course, you can try to lay low and step away, but it can still be hard to find out what truly is the best way to handle a breakup. Breaking up with a girlfriend or boyfriend is tough, especially when you have completely no idea on what to do next. Luckily, by following the tips below, you can find out what you need to do.

What's the best way to handle a breakup?

The best way to handle the breakup is to simply let him or her go. You don't want to call your ex right now, as I'm pretty he or she is hurting just as much as you are. No matter who started the fight or the breakup, it's best to simply let the relationship's pain free for several days and let it go. By simply leaving the pain behind, you can potentially rebuild the relationship after taking time off.

Should I try and save the relationship?

Most definitely, yes. Of course, you really want to outweigh the problems and see if your relationship can still be repaired. However, it's very possible for every relationship to get fixed, as nothing is really impossible when it comes to love. So, try and save the relationship and go get your ex back. It's very possible to get your ex back once you've already lied low for several days to a few weeks.

No matter who started the whole fight, once you've lied low, you can call your ex back now and ask if everything is ok. You want to try calling, as you could express your sadness or sorrow more effectively over the phone. Simply apologize and say that you're sorry. This can help for your ex to see that you still care. During this point, you really want to show your ex that you still want him or her back. So, express how you'd like to get back together again and say that you're sorry no matter what. It'll help clear everything up.

Are results instant?

For some, they're able to get their ex back much quicker than others while some will have to go through a repairing time in order for their relationship to get healed. However, it's not uncommon to see your ex running back to you once you call him or her. One last tip to remember is to talk to your ex's friends to ask how your ex is doing. They will definitely help you to decide when you should call and ask for forgiveness.

The best way to handle a breakup is to simply follow the tips above. Remember that you won't see results instantly, but never give up, especially when you really want for the relationship to work out. So, try ignoring the relationship for a few days and call your ex once you feel like the time is right.

Street Talk

No comments present
You May Also Like
Taking Time Off Can Actually Help Workers Get More Done
Did you know that taking time off can actually help workers get more done? When you're working for yourself you get to refresh yourself. Responsible Know what else? You're responsible for taking time off! Journey Memories are funny things, aren’t they? I’m packing boxes now. I’m preparing for a journey.…
By: Cynthia Ann Leighton in  Business  >  Solo Professionals   Aug 01, 2012  
  Likes: 4

Taking Time for Nutrition
Does anyone remember the cartoon character, The Road Runner, and how he was always running, running and running, bearly stopping to take a breath? He never had much time except to keep running. I am retired now and I am surprised to find that being retired does not mean rest…
By: Carolann Sherwood in  Health and Fitness   Mar 17, 2011  
  Likes: 0

Win Back An Ex With A Proven Plan
After being dumped by an ex with who you are still in love, often your main aim is to work out how you are going to get them back again. However, many times the problem can be that you don't have any idea where to begin. You may be going…
By: Joanne2 in  Relationships  >  Love   Jul 11, 2011  
  Likes: 1

How To Win Back A Love By Looking After Yourself
Something we are not taught is to understand how to win back an ex love. When it does actually happen that you want to make up with someone who has left us, someone that you are still in love with, it really can be a frustrating time. If you read…
By: Joanne2 in  Relationships  >  Love   Jul 14, 2011  
  Likes: 1

Norms Cafe
Retirees!!! Some people have made the choice of retiring and look forward to it with great anticipation. Others are force into retirement because their jobs has been eliminated by a shortage of work or to cut down on the work force they will buy you out. Also we have to…
By: norman in  Internet and Businesses Online  >  Affiliate Revenue   Apr 15, 2011  
  Likes: 0

Advice for A Broken Heart
This article is only for a broken heart that need to be restored with happiness, not sadness. It sucks to be broken hearted and I'm sure you can't stand it. It's been a long time since I've been heart broken, but I got over it kind of quickly. In this…
By: Saytue Saye1 in  Relationships   Dec 12, 2011  
  Likes: 2

3 Powerful Tips to Getting Over Your Ex
No one ever said that breaking up with a loved one is ever easy. The most difficult part about this tragedy comes AFTER the break up. Soon after you both part from each other, your mind may be filled with tons of emotions of memories of you and your ex…
By: Monica Lennon in  Relationships   Oct 22, 2012  
  Likes: 0

My 30 In 30 Days Challenge Finale - Friends
Here I am, made it to the last article of my 30 in 30 days challenge. I even manage to finish it two days earlier. Just in case, I will put in an extra few writings. I feel satisfied and very proud of myself. I am proud, a little exhausted…
By: Piroska Varga in  Writing and Speaking  >  Writing Articles   Aug 19, 2013  
  Likes: 11

Running Away From Sorrow
I never saw this coming. I, for one, did not like to sweat on purpose. Oh, I understood sweating. I just didn't want to do it, if I could help it. Well menopause and vanity had other thoughts. As a health-care practitioner who ate healthfully and lived a relatively healthy…
By: Dr Becky Spacke in  Health and Fitness  >  Mind Body Spirit   Apr 26, 2012  
  Likes: 5

How to Win Your Man Back
When there is a breakup after a long term relationship, no matter whose fault it was, both the partners feel like patching up again but could not as they are afraid of doing so. Girls may express their sorrow as it is the women’s nature. However, men usually do not…
By: theblogger2012 in  Relationships  >  Love   Jul 23, 2012  
  Likes: 0

Tips for Getting Your Ex Back
Did you just experience a break up? Do you have questions on how to get an ex back? Almost every person has some experience in breaking up, but most of us just accept the break up instead of looking for a way to get an ex back again. But if…
By: Lisaanne J. in  Relationships   Jan 25, 2012  
  Likes: 0

How to Make A Girlfriend – Turn A Girl Into Your Girlfriend
How to make a girlfriend out of a friend? Are you thinking too much about this question? If so, you have come into the right place. The biggest problem you face in turning your friend into your girlfriend is the fear that you may lose your friendship. Sometimes it is…
By: Alex J Steve in  Relationships  >  Dating   May 02, 2012  
  Likes: 1

Conflict Brings Out the Best And Worst In People
Self Preservation The primal urge for self preservation is often linked to an array of emotions and thoughts, each juxtaposed in the aspect of good and evil. The subjectivity of these often conservative and radical actions, as individuals’ enter an increasingly volatile era of insecurity and hardship. From the ambitious…
By: George Siladi in  Relationships  >  Conflict   Jun 06, 2016  
  Likes: 0

My Heart is Breaking Because My Boyfriend Dumped Me – What Should I Now?
Your heart is breaking because your boyfriend dumped you. You have no idea what your next move should be. Should you try to get your boyfriend back or should you just hide away from the world a little while – until the pain goes away? What should you do now?…
By: T Dub Jackson in  Relationships  >  Conflict   May 23, 2011  
  Likes: 2

Get Back At Ex By Being Nice - 4 Ways To Get Back At Them With Kindness
Dealing with an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend can be accomplished in many different ways. Some people are rude and vindictive because they want their ex to feel and and suffer. And there are those who choose to be nice in order to get back at their ex. If you…
By: Garry2 in  Relationships  >  Conflict   Dec 27, 2011  
  Likes: 1

Article Views: 3349    Report this Article