If your relationship is close to a breakup, then there are a few things you must know before actually making the breakup official. I know sometimes it is hard to think positive in your relationship. And I bet it is even harder to think positive when your partner isn't so positive, but there is a way around it. but honestly speaking, negative people making it harder to survive in your relationship.

One thing you have to understand is that it is not the end of the world. People makeup all the time in their broken marriages and relationships, you just have to know how to play the game by the rules.

So, how do you play the game by its rules? Well, it is almost like feeling it through your heart and soul. Everything your partner does and says has to be paid very close attention to, because if it's not, then you will not react in a way that is effective in saving your relationship with your boyfriend or husband.

You see, it does not matter how worst your situation is, you can save your broken relationship. Think about women that are abused by their partner, but are still with them. Even though that relationship is harmful to anyone, I'm just saying, if a relationship like that can survive, then I am almost positive that you can survive your relationship.

Nobody's relationship is perfect, you have to understand that, because people act like their marriage life or dating life is just cookies and cream does not mean that it really is cookies and cream. The reason why it seem like their relationship is cookies and cream is because they know for a fact that if anybody knew their problems, negativity always rise. You should only tell your relationship problems to someone you trust. If you are the type of person that let out problems to anyone then that is a problem, period.

The reason why it's not a great idea to tell your relationship problems to everyone and anyone is because, most people do not care. And they might bring you down by telling you stuff like:

1. He or she is wrong

2. If I were you....

3. Just leave

4. You dederve better

Some people out here are jealous of your relationship and you don't even know.

Let's take T. Dub, "Magic of Making Up" for instance, the ebook has helped a lot of couples stay together as well as grow trust and have communication skills. Believe it or not, trust and communication are the two factors that bring confusion in any relationship, and because there is so much lack of trust and communications, couples do not understand each other.

Instead of telling people all your business that goes on in your relationship, a good book such as the "Magic of Making Up" can help you understand yourself as well as your partner. That way, everything that goes on in your relationship stays in your relationship and not outside to negative people making it harder to survive in your relationship.