Getting back together with your ex can certainly be done if you are prepared to work at it. If you know that he is willing to give it another go, then you are more likely to be successful, but even if you have no idea how he feels, there are still things you can do to try and win him back and get him to fall in love with you all over again.

Firstly, immediately after the break up you must resist the urge to contact him.

Stop making those phone calls every time you have a free moment, and it is pointless sending text messages he probably deletes without reading.

Instead, don’t contact him at all for several weeks. He may feel relieved at first, but after a while he will start to feel as though something is missing from his life – namely, you.

However, he won’t reach this stage if you are unable to ignore him.

So, instead of trying to contact him when he is obviously not interested, focus on yourself.

When was the last time you tried a new hairstyle or bought some fashionable, stylish clothes?

Treat yourself to something like this – it will help you to take your mind off your ex and make you feel much better.

Don’t stay at home all of the time either. This is a mistake that the majority of women make after a break up, and it does not help you to accept the situation and move on.

Appearing as though you have moved on after the end of a relationship, even if you can’t stop thinking about him, is one of the best ways to get him interested in you again.

Let him see you out and about with your friends, looking fantastic and having fun. Wear clothes that make you look and feel good, and if you normally wear make-up, put some on.

If you attract attention from other men, that’s even better, because he will start to feel jealous and realise that you are slipping out of his reach.

This may cause him to try and get you back, rather than you needing to chase after him. Don’t be surprised if you hear from him after something like this; it may have been what he needed in order to realise what he was missing.

If you really want to get back with your ex, don’t give up, as it can be done. Keep doing the things to winning him back and you will find that he is changing his mind toward the relationship.