If you are looking to win back an ex-boyfriend, don’t despair – it can be done, and more easily than you might expect.

Regardless of who actually ended the relationship, it is possible for the two of you to get back together, as long as the interest and attraction is still there on both sides.

The most important mistake that many women make while trying to get back with an ex is to send too long calling and texting.

If he has just broken up with you, he will not want to hear from you several times a day. Instead, you should cut off all contact.

This may sound strange, but at this stage it is the best thing you can do. If you are not around, he will begin to notice that something is missing from his life.

Allow him the time to reach this conclusion. He will then figure out that it is you he is missing, and that he may want to do something about that. Don’t be surprised if he calls you.

Don’t just stay at home for the several weeks where you are ignoring him. This is a perfect opportunity for you to get out and try all the new activities you’ve thought about but always found excuses not to do.

Getting on with your own life will show your ex that you really don’t need him, and this in turn will make him even crazier about you.

After all, men love an independent woman who can take care of herself.

Another important thing to do after a break up is to maintain your appearance. Many women do not take the time and effort to make themselves look good after a relationship has ended, but it is one of the easiest ways to show him exactly what he is missing.

Your looks will have played a part in his initial feelings for you, so take advantage of that.

Try dressing to accentuate his favourite parts of your body; this will definitely attract his attention if you should happen to bump into him when you are out.

Most importantly of all, do not give up. If this is really the guy for you, then you will be able to win him back.

Be prepared to put in some effort to get back together, and then you will be able to have a successful relationship second time around.

And always remember that it will take some time to win him back. If you find that your efforts are not making any changes in him, then do different things to win him back. But you need to keep persistence.