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Your Relationship Is Over - But You Want Your Ex Back
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Have you and your boyfriend or girlfriend separated, and now you want to get your ex back, because you know that you still love them? Here are a few things to help get your ex back, and fall in love with you again.

Most of us feel, that when we break-up, that it is permanent. This isn't so, it is usually just the opposite. It can be heartbreaking when you lose someone that you love, because for one reason or another, they feel that they no longer want to be with you.

This can be pretty hard to understand, especially if you had no idea that a break-up was about to happen. If you were clueless that your relationship was falling apart, then maybe you weren't giving enough of your time or attention to your partner.

Taking a loving partner for granted, or taking advantage of them is one of the major reasons that relationships start to fall apart. This isn't to say that this is the reason for the break-up, but it is a strong possibility.

If you love your ex, and want to get your ex back, then give them a little time and some space. Don't start calling them incessantly. Leave them alone for a while, give them enough time to think about what they have done, and why they broke up with you.

Let them see how they feel without you around.

While you are giving them some space, you need to go out and have some fun with friends and family. You should not stay at home, sitting by the phone waiting for your ex to call you. Let them realize, that they made the choice, and that you are not going to mope around because they are gone.

Once you have given them a little time to access the break-up situation, you can try and call them, or text them, to see if they would like to go somewhere and talk about what has been going on with your relationship.

Don't try to force or push them into meeting you somewhere, or for you to pick them up. You can go out for a friendly lunch if you want, what ever that you both think would be a good place to sit and communicate.

You both need to discuss what has happened, and attempt to get to the core of the problem that resulted in the two of you separating. See how you both feel about each other, you may be surprised that they were feeling unwanted, and felt that it was best to end the relationship.

If this is the case, then it will be very easy for you to re-establish your relationship, and get your ex back, because they never really wanted to break-up anyway. They still love you, and want you back just as much as you want your ex back, if not even more.

So be calm, sit down with your ex, and get to the bottom of what has happened, so that you both can start rebuilding your relationship. You can get your ex back sooner than you think, and they will be more in love with you than before, just find out what the problem is, and correct it.


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