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What statements need be used to make breastfeeding moms look more human? I started this article without warning you I have only my opinion to give. I love motherhood, and I also know there is bad and good mothering.
I grew up in Costa Rica, and while women there breastfeed their young, they also know the time for winning a baby from physical contact most happen soon, so they can experience the world and develop good psyche and human connections.
I know women love their children but I also know that physical body contact with mother should end soon in early months so that baby develops correctly.
I also know this article may bring me a lot of negative thoughts for others, I accept them, and I tell those who feel different that I am sorry I do not share their thoughts and believes, but that my opinion is a valuable as any, and those women who breast feed directly from the breast to a more than one year old child are wrong to do so.
Do not get me wrong, I believe in nutrition, and close relationship between mother and baby, but I also know there is a limit to everything. A mom is the source of reliable information for baby to learn from.
That reliable truth is not one that presents mothers as too sexually involved with their child's life that they need that bond between small babies and moms to last into toddler years. When I see women physically breastfeeding a child older than 6 months I think they need a husband, I mean they have lost their human prospective.
The last statement brings me to this comment. Children need more than one parent. They need two people who can find the best upbringing for that child. And further more I think if that family who is advertising physical breastfeeding on children after six months need money, they need to get a job, a real job that do not exploit a child's mental health and human persona in the future.
Authors extended opinion (not proven)
When I was in to it, I went to many mothering seminars in Costa Rica, the professors there were Psychiatrists, and warned me that excessive care may lead to different mental conditions, most of them linked between sexual killers and emotional disadvantage killers. It is our responsibility to raise the young with a sound head.
This makes having children even a more of a bold adventure than we might expect it, to turn out be like.
Love the article, agree with what you say, and would not argue a point with you, as Men have no idea what it is like to raise children at that age. That I think is why it is referred to as motherly instinct, men a there to protect that's all not to advise.
Wow. Strong Opinions. and Yes, yours' IS as valuable as any. I respect your position and happen to agree with you on at least the part about recognizing when it's time to ween the child. I am not a big fan of over coddling children. My mom didn't and she raised 4 very respectful and loving children along with my fathers help, so I also agree that there should be two parents involved. I haven't heard or read any of the fathers reactions to the Time mag. piece. The fathers/husbands of those portrayed in the article. Thanks for the share and insight and for standing your ground.
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