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I see a lot of my friends do stupid things in their relationships and I can not believe in it.

But the truth is that I also recognize myself in their behaviors, because I had the same kind of attitudes before reading some books about romantic relationships and applying them correctly to men.

It is unbelievable that until my 30s, my relationships have sunk so completely for the same reasons and attitudes that I now witness.

And oddly enough, I had more and better relationships after my 30s than before that.

Here are the most important points for the relationship going forward:

1) Men like to be hunters. Please give them that pleasure. In other words, do not run after them at all. They should run after you. There are already a lot of women in the world running after them. You should not do the same thing. If they are interested, they will look for you. If not, better not even start it, because it wont end well.

2) Do not change your whole life because of him. Wow, I have done this a lot in the past!! Your priority is you and he is the one that should fit or wanting to fit into your life. Not otherwise. Be sure to make that trip you have planned, that language course or that project you have always cherished. I he likes you he will wait you, support you or go with you.

3) Also do not try to change him. See whether you can or you can not live with his bad habits, his quirks and his flaws. We woman must stop dreaming of finding Mr. Right. It needs to be perfect, but perfect for you. But remember that everyone has flaws. Of course, serious defects, such as aggression, should not be tolerated anyway.

4) Be original and yourself. Men want womens magazine, but remember they do not interact. They want someone beautiful and enjoyable, but also people with whom they can talk, learn about new things in life and laugh. Does not look like a lifeless doll.

5) Don not neglect your appearance ever. Whether you are dating, engaged or married. Although they seem not to notice, you can be sure that they do. So, nails and toes handled well, clothes that look good on you, light makeup and fragrance always go well.

6) Do not treat him like he is the only and last man on earth because he was interested in you. He will find he is made a mistake by having falling in love with you, because you will seem a poor woman and no man wants to be next to a poor woman.

7) Following the first tip, after you conquer him, keep don not running after him. Let him look for you most of the time. Men hate feeling suffocated or to have someone on his toes. Besides, you have a lot to do with your life. And if not, arrange it. Having a man should not be the mission of your life if you want to preserve him.

8) Do not expect you will be able to change the attitudes of a man. This is not impossible, but highly unlikely and it is not worth your time and a lot of tears you will shed in the process. If he is a handsome guy and narcissistic type, for example, he is used to have a lot of womens attention and care and it is probably what he will expect from you. If you expect that he will cover you with that attention, you will be disappointed. So, keep your expectations realistic.

9) Evaluate the man you are with and therefore whether this relationship has a future by his actions with you more than by what he gives you:

- He is loving?

- He hears you and supports you?

- He does what he says he will do? That is, is he reliable?

- The relationship is egalitarian or one of them is more dominant than the other?

- There are many arguments? When they exist, you can solve quickly and without leaving hard feelings?

- Do you have common goals?

The more balanced responses, the better the chances of this relationship to go forward and slowly and you can invest in it more and more.

If the situation is not good, do not keep with this relationship. I know its hard to break up, but sooner, the better. You will be able to recover sooner and be on the road to find someone more capable to make you happy.

10) And speaking of that, go real slow. Feel what directions the love relationship goes. Follow his behaviors. In other words, do not jump blindly in it, saying “I love you” and wanting to set the marriage date before he even said that you are important to him or he misses you. Let him set the tone and direction and then correspond it if you feel the same.

Finally, after a long time, I discovered that what attracts men is a woman with a high self esteem. Men want to be with women who feel good and make them feel good too.

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