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5 Simple Tips For Attracting A Man
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5 Simple Tips For Attracting A Man

There might be a guy you are particularly interested in. How do you let him know? Ask him directy? Do you check around to see if he might be interested in you? It’s hard sometimes to get up enough courage to approach what seems to be the man of our dreams.

Some women are just so afraid of rejection that they won’t even talk to a guy unless she knows he has some kind of interest in her. On the flip side, some women just prefer to be blunt, and ‘put it out there’, if there’s no interest she will just move on.

So how do you get guys to give you all the attention you want? Maybe more than you wanted?

5 Simple Tips For Attracting A Man

1. Don’t go out in large groups with your girlfriends. Large groups intimidate a guy. Three seems to work the best. Your two friends can keep each other company if a guy approaches you.

2. Make eye contact work for you. Flash him a few glances from across the room. When you smile at him make it a real smile. They can tell the difference between a real and fake smile.

3. When making small talk be sure it stays positive. You are supposed to be out having fun. So keep the conversation light and as positive as possible.

4. If you immediately ask ‘what he does’ he will most likely think you are some kind of gold digger. A lot of guys are afraid of being used and hate it when a girl asks what kind of job they have.

5. Make sure you have a beverage. Sounds kind of silly, maybe, but some guys don’t want to buy you a drink ten seconds after they meet you.

When getting to know someone, it’s better to hold back your emotions enough so that you can keep a clear head. Falling head over heels in love too quickly can be very dangerous. Keep alert and don’t just believe everything he says blindly. The getting to know each other phase should be taken slowly.

The other important thing you absolutely must do when attracting a man is to be genuine. If this dreamy man falls for you, make sure he falls for the real you. Falling for someone based on who they appear to be, then finding out they are totally different is kind of like opening that biggest present on Christmas morning only to find out it’s plain white underwear. A huge letdown!

What we need to keep in mind when attracting a man is that great relationships aren’t made of two perfect people. They are made of two imperfect people who work together well. He might look like a million bucks, be witty and charming as can be, but the only way you will know if he’s boyfriend or husband material is to get to know him over time.

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