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Act Like A Man, Think Like A Woman

I lately studied Bob Harvey’s publication "Act like a Lady, Think like a Man" and to say the least, I was quite satisfied. He did not get it 100% but he came near, I'll give him 90%, no, an 87%. I’m doing that just because, well, just because. *Grin*

Anyway, returning to the purpose of this article, this is quite different from what I usually write. Men are simple human beings, really frank and easy to comprehend, so I believe there shouldn't be any issue understanding men. Comon! There shouldn’t be much hassle solving the simple mathematical problem of 1+1? No? I didn’t think so. However, mind boggling equations like - what is the ratio of the circumference 7611 after calculating the bearing of an angle measuring 980.874352? Yes, anyone? Is there an Einstein in the neighbourhood? Please, do pardon me when I say the latter computation is, well, Women. Yes, women.

You see, after much analysis (Yes, like every other issue set before you, there's analysis that needs to be done), yes, so, after much analysis, I decided to ‘culture’ two individuals-

1. My philanderer friends

2. My lesbian friends

The first set, well...I discovered that although most women realized these friends of mine were philanderers, they kept pursuing them; and I mean, really pursing, galloping in fact! I have an ex –model philanderer friend who has women for almost each week of the month - Yes! I refuse to lie to you by saying that he has babes for every day of the week, to me, that’s impossible. That type of man is either using black magic or is a crossbreed of the unfathomable- so, yes, a new woman almost every week and they all knew that they were not 'The One' but, they wished. (Oh! my!)

During this experiment, I started hanging out with the lot (the philandering lot) and, one important point I got to know was, like men, women like and want what they cannot have! I’m like, is that a joke or what? Then again, thought about the point made and realised the already obvious, women most times like the bad boys, going easy here, the inaccessible men. I’m sure you’ve heard women complain - "All the good men are taken!” really? There are some perfect or near perfect men reading this article right now! What they really mean is - All the men they want, are either taken, engaged or are not prepared for any emotional entanglements, end of story.

My philanderer mates clearly showed that they were in no mood to be emotionally entangled or connected with any woman. I had one mate who specifically wanted a woman he could flirt with regularly and warm his bed when the need arose.

Finally, these men knew how to look good. The clothes did not need to be expensive, just clean and well put together. A woman wants to show off her man, she wants him to look like a man and act like a man, protect her. My friends sure knew how to treat a woman, treating her like porcelain at least for the time they spent together.

Now, let’s analyse my second ‘culture’ group. Do you sometimes wonder how Ellen Degeneres was able to bag a wife like Portia De Rossi? If you don’t, well, I wonder sometimes. I have a few lesbian buddies have girlfriends some men cannot have in two lifetimes to come; even some straight women. It got me considering, and then I realized (light bulb!), these were females themselves so they just knew! After questioning a number of them, they admitted also that women are complex in nature but they better understood them because they themselves were women. They knew when to stop chasing, they knew when to act un-interested, when to listen and also when to get intimate. As they are not men like my philanderer friends, I trusted their technique a bit more. Here they are:

1. Show interests in her hobbies; know what she likes, what she wants to achieve (Warning! Don’t do this so much that you fall into the friend zone, please!) , why do you think women love gay guys.

2. Let her know that you are first, her friend.

3. Know this, if you act very available, she’ll loose interest. Let her see that there are other things on your plate and carving out time from your busy schedule means you value the ‘friendship’.

4. Let her know you can protect her, and hold out on the normal guy stuff like kissing and touching on the first and second dates. Ye shall not faint where forth ye hold your peace (blah! I’m trying Old English)

5. Be confident in your skin, in yourself as a man. That’s very sexy.

6. If it’s not working, move on. Don’t tag along like a homeless dog. When you show her that you’re not desperate, she’ll most probably come asking where you’ve been.

I have tried some of the above snippets, and I daresay, I’ll give it an 89%.


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