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Challenging Your Limiting Beliefs: Limiting Beliefs Can Be Challenging To Moving Forward In Love
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Challenging Your Limiting Beliefs: Limiting Beliefs Can Be Challenging To Moving Forward In Love

If you haven’t been challenging your beliefs about love, life, relationships and yourself maybe it time to try if you want to be moving forward in love. Why? Because in reality these beliefs are holding you back from finding soul mate love. They would also be holding your vibration back from reaching the level of Love that you so richly deserves.

Limiting beliefs are the stories we tell ourselves without even realizing it. When you listen closely to the conversations in your head or with friends you can pick it up. They can be easy to pick up in others but difficult to pick up in ourselves. I held limiting beliefs myself and didn’t even realize that I did. Until I started observing what I was saying like ‘I didn’t want to get married again’, and this was what my vibration was holding on to even though it wasn’t true. The universe may interpret this as ‘if you don’t want to get married why do you need a man in your life!’. So you need to make sure that your feeling match what you want to attract.

Let’s see if we can challenge any limiting beliefs that you might hold. I am sure that I can guess what a few of them are

  • I’m too old - Really? There are no men your age anywhere? That seems highly unusual, in any community there is always a mix of people of all ages and genders.
  • I’m too fat - There is a classical line in ‘Eat, Pray, Love’ which I believe knocks this one down in flames and it goes like this “Has a man ever asked you to leave when you are staying in front of him naked?”. Good men don’t care what we weigh only we do. So embrace your inner goddess and show off your best assets he will appreciate it.
  • I’m too damaged - If this is what you are feeling then we will look at some tools to change this perception as help is there for everyone if you embrace it. And at the end of the day, every pot has a lid.
  • All the good ones are gone - There are billions of people in the world and half of them are of the opposite sex, literally billions not all the good ones are already hooked up. There are some great ones left, when you start really looking.
  • Too broke - Love doesn’t care how much money you have. Your love vibration is not dependent on dollars and cents it is dependent on feelings.

How do you start Challenging Your Limiting Beliefs?

I have found that naming and shaming is a great place to start. Start by taking yourself off autopilot and start observing what you’re saying and how you are talking about love, relationships and most of all yourself. The best way to start challenging your limiting beliefs is to recognize your thoughts about love. Then think about whether the thoughts are true or not, to be honest the vast majority of times they are not true. You may be just living out old patterns that you no longer need.

The universe doesn’t hear what you say, the universe feels your vibration, that is the feeling behind the words. You can’t trick the universe, and it will send you the energy that you are putting out there. If you don’t believe there is someone for you, then there will be no one for you! There is always more to learn about how to kick those challenging beliefs to the curb once and for all. That way you can raise your vibration and find the soul mate of your dreams.


Street Talk

I feel the same way as any other woman with heartbreak and What would I have done if not for DR. Prince, my name is Mrs. Whitney, I am 28. years old and I have a son and A daughter. Unfortunately almost a year ago his father broke up with me because of a mistake I made and I just really want him back. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I wanted our family to be complete again, I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I grew up with my parents divorced and I don't want that for my son and I miss my husband so much and just want our family to be whole again I want the love of my life back and I can honestly say that because he is the only man I have ever truly loved with all my heart. I read on line that he helped a girl in this situation and I contacted him for help So I seek help from grandprinceoflove@ gmail. com and he responded to me and he cast a love spell for me which I use in getting back my husband and I am happy and grateful to him for helping me and I want you all to also have the opportunity I had also, grandprinceoflove@ gmail. com is the only through help I have ever known. Good luck

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  about 8 years ago

True, I found out that I had a belief from school where I said I never want to get married. Had to change that one :-) Thanks Gayle.

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  about 9 years ago

Yes and I said it when I got divorced, changes that know though. Gayle

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  about 9 years ago

Thanks Cynthia, I am sure that we have all had them at one point or another. Gayle

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  about 9 years ago

Laughing! Thanks for a fun and wonderful article.

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  about 9 years ago

You are so right Jackelyn, what we think becomes our reality. Gayle

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  about 9 years ago

So true about everything in life Gayle. The messages I tell myself are in direct proportion to what I reap in my life be it in love or elsewhere. I enjoy your articles.

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  about 9 years ago

True Shawn I think that sometimes we get so caught up in a pattern that we don't realize that we are attracting what we are putting out. Gayle

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  about 9 years ago

Spot on Gayle, you attract what you ask for, be it vocally or by action.

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  about 9 years ago

True Joan it is very tricky but not impossible. It would be great to get the type of love where we don't have to protect ourselves anymore. Deeper beliefs can become a prison for some which is such a shame. Thanks for reading Gayle

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  about 9 years ago
Joan S  

All of us have a tape playing. It's tricky to change that tape, since much of the time, we're just trying to protect ourselves. We have to uncover our deeper beliefs. Excellent advice.

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  about 9 years ago
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