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Lets face it men, the world of technology which we currently live in is a scary place and is even more so when it comes to the opposite sex and dating. So many new questions have arisen that weren't even in the picture a few short years ago. Questions such as 'should I send her a tweet?' or 'should I constantly be liking everything on her Facebook page?', 'maybe I should Instagram a picture of myself and see what she thinks?'. In all of these cases the answer is a resounding NO! So now let me ask you a question, do you want to get back in the game? Do you want to stop being blocked and ignored? Or are you just looking for some basic pointers to get you over that proverbial hump? If you answered yes or even thought about answering yes to any of those questions then please my friend, read on.
First off let me just say that social media sites are tools and should not be used as an alternate life. With that being said, if you want to meet a woman a nice respectable woman and not these skeez balls parading around on certain sites then you have to get out there and mingle. Look, there is only two types of people in this world, males and females. The world is full of women, no matter where you go you are guaranteed to see meet or at least see a woman.
A lot of you are probably cringing at the thought of getting out from behind your computer and starting to flirt in real life instead of doing it virtually. But I guarantee you that it is much better in person then doing it via cyber space. The same can be said for a few other things but that's another article for another time. The number one thing that I can recommend, as cliche as it sounds, is to just be yourself and don't be afraid of rejection.
Okay, back to business, now when you meet a lady or better yet when you see a woman you want to meet, you must abandon everything that your friends and motion pictures have ever taught you because it is mostly garbage. Instead try this novel idea, try being yourself and act like a human being. Everybody knows that women love compliments, so obviously you want to play on that. Since you want to meet this woman I am assuming that you are attracted to her and chances are you have checked her out pretty well, and I'm not just talking about the parts that all men immediately gawk at. Once the gawking is over take a real look at her and try to notice something more about her, something unique and please try to do this without going in to full on creeper mode.
So, if you have been able to take a good look at her, hopefully you have noticed something you can talk to her about, or at the very least compliment her on. For instances, maybe she is wearing some earrings that that you find particularly nice, or maybe another accessory like bracelet or necklace, maybe her shoes. Why you ask? Well, besides being complimented based solely on physical attributes women love when a man can take notice of the little subtle things that usually by unnoticed by other men.
I hope these tips and advice help you to get out there as this is one easy and pretty simple way to open the door to a conversation with just about any woman. It might not turn into that one night stand you have dreamed of and it may not even turn into a relationship but then again you never know. Think of it this way, taking this approach and talking to women like this is a lot like playing a lotto scratcher, there is very little risk but the reward could be tremendous. Just try the simple steps I have outlined here for you and realize it may take some time and practice before you are really doing it confidently and without coming off like a creeper but please keep at it and I guarantee you will see results. So turn off your computer and get out there and get some tail.
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