Pregnancy is one of the best events that can happen in life. Whether the pregnancy was planned or it just happen its still a blessings in itself. Most women and men are happy they are bringing a little bundle of joy into this world. However, some are not because of financial situations, relationship problems, and etc. Well life bring things upon us that we have to deal with whether we want too or not. With pregnancy comes a lot of girlfriend problems because of hormones as well as other things.

Dealing with a pregnant girlfriend can be the worst thing in the world. Yes, it sometimes causes you to want to stress out and just run from the whole situation. I know all of this from experience because i am in this same situation right now. However, its up to the man to realize that this only last a few months and things will be back to normal in due time. Though it easier said than done it is able to accomplish. My girlfriend is almost 6 months pregnant and i can tell you she is far from the person i first met.

I hear on countless occasions that she don't want to be with me and all kinds of mean things. Honestly, i sometimes feel like its intentionally. If your like me and use to being around your girlfriend a lot its going to be quite hard to give her the space she need to gather up the many thoughts she has flowing through her mind. Giving your girlfriend space is vital to the success of the relationship and is required. I can tell you that many pregnant women get upset over the weirdest things and you probably feel like it could have been avoided.

I totally agree with you that most arguments could have been avoided, however your girlfriend can't really control her hormones and even when she tries nature eventually takes it course. Right now as I type i feel like my girlfriend doesn't care about me because of the many awful things she says and does but what keeps me strong is knowing the person she was before the pregnancy occurred. Of course your girlfriend is going to say you don't understand what she is going through. That is true but at the same time she doesn't understand the effect it has on the male also.

Trust me it has been plenty of times i have said i rather carry the baby then play this role. Pregnancy is hard for the woman as well as the man. The important thing to remember is that regardless of if you and your other half break up or not, that child is still part of your responsibility. With that being said, i am going to do everything possible to make sure my girlfriend is happy despite getting treated so badly. Most women realize how they treated you months after the baby is born and usually apologize for their ways.

I am going to continue to try to be their for my girlfriend despite her being mean and treating me like i don't mean anything to her. Hopefully, I'll have a family one day and i can be a full time dad and a husband. Lastly, guys remember anything worth having, is worth fighting for. Men we must stay strong, stay positive, try our best to communicate with our other half, and be there because this when our girlfriend needs us most!