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You hear many stories about the definition of true love or soul mates. What does it mean? Is it about a very deep understanding?
It is in fact so deep, that they can finish each other sentences and in a way know what the other one is thinking, kind of like twins.
You understand how they're feeling and what they need from you. You are able to share anything with each other and know that there will be no judgement. There may also be times of dejavu, like you have had the same conversation before not just now and not just for the first time.
This understanding comes from a very deep connection and a connection which by and large can be very hard to explain to others. It is very hard to put it into words that anyone else is likely to understand.
A common understanding that the two of you share that seems like if comes from many life times together not just from this life and this time. You may share complementary values and beliefs, which ensure a happy union and one which allows a connection at the deepest level possible.
Your true love may show up in your life when you need them most, even if you don't realize it. Now that may be as a lover but it may also be as a friend. A friend that is able to provide guidance, provide love and provide support. This may be provided to you at a time in your life when you are feeling most vulnerable.
A time in your life when you are in need of the type of understanding that true love like soul mates, who has no doubt supported you in many life times, can provide. This support will be provided without judgement and with complete understanding.
If your true love shows up as a lover, look out as you are no doubt in for the best physical relationship or sex of your life. When two souls that know each other this well get together there are bound to be fireworks.
The type of fireworks that would rival the best New Year’s Eve party anywhere in the world. Yes, you are both in for quite a treat if you are lucky enough to have your true love turn up in your life to be your lover. If this happens to you hold onto your hat and just enjoy the ride.
So in trying to give a definition of true love it is then a spiritual connection between soul mates, a deep connection and love, all of which comes from sharing many life times of memories and experiences together.
The other side of the coin is that people are just people at the end of the day and soul mate relationships can end up in trouble just like any other relationship.
Read more about the most reliable way to achieve a long term successful relationship so that together you can understand what true love means.
I agree this IS a great article and it ISNT one that doesnt show that it could fall apart. I always thought that I was so completely in love with my exhusband of 23 yrs then I found out he cheated - well actually knowing him so well I KNEW when it happened. I was mad and hurt but after I made him leave I realized that he was NOT my soul mate. I started dating a man that I had actually knew as a kid and had really liked back then. When we went out on our first date we clicked Immediately and we are 2 years in and live together, are deep in love and we both know that we can tell the other anything- which neither of us had in our marriages- without it being held against us down the road. I am extremely lucky to of found my soul mate who is also my best friend and lover and I (WE) believe that we found each other at the perfect times of our lives- we are grown, know what we do and do not want, we are over the childish behavior that could sometimes happen without meaning to, and we can be who we know that we are without having to worry that it is going to upset the other person we are with. He has been by my side through some pretty tough and dark times with me and I have been by his when he was going through some tough times with his exwife- KNOWING that we had each other made those times not as bad as they could of felt like... I feel that we are very lucky to be in love with our soulmates... I only wish and hope that others get to feel this kind of.. peace? friendship and love because it really is the best feeling EVER!
This is a great article....I like you have shown it can even fall apart...I know about that soul mate thing....and I have many soulmate friends ...they are for life....and to be treasured.
They are to be treasure, friendship built over lifetimes. It is always good to remember that at some point they may exit our lives when their work is done. gayle
Lucky person who finds that deep connection. It can come in many forms, even a sister or brother. Sometimes it's a friend. I even think a soul mate can just pass through your life when you need him the most, like an angel. Then sometimes they just move on when you're okay again. Life is mysterious. Thank you Gayle, very interesting subject.
I agree Joan, I have so many soul mates in my life and very special ones that have appeared when I have needed them most. Gayle
Quite interesting topic, if you can get it to work well most of the times, that will be great.
I think that is a wonderful philosophy for a happy marriage. I am so pleased that you found each other
I have a husband who is also my best friend. Even though we have our ups and downs, we are able to communicate with each other. One of the ways we keep our marriage going is to tell each other how much we love the other person every day. We do that whether we are having a difficult day or a pleasant day.
I love that your husband is your best friend and communication is definitely the key to a great relationship. It is nice to hear in a world with some much divorce. gayle
Interesting. Look forward to more of your articles on trying to give a definition of true love and to understand what true love means. Good article! Great photo.
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