Do you want to get back together with your ex girlfriend, but she's afraid to come back to you? Getting back together with your ex can seem hopeless. There is no quick fix relationship magic to get your girlfriend back, but you can help your ex girlfriend get over her fear of getting back together with you....
Let's first examine why she may be afraid to come back to you. Is she worried that she might get hurt again? Is she afraid that you and her will argue and fight all the time? Does she has reason to believe that you and her are not meant to be together? Is there an issue with the living arrangements? This list can go on forever. To pin point the exact reason, start by looking at why you broke up in the first place. This may hold the key!
If you are already past this point, great. If not, you are on the right path.... Now for the important part.... How do you get your ex girlfriend past her fears of getting back together with you? You have to SHOW HER that she has nothing to fear. Chances are, she has a lot of emotions that she doesn't know how to handle. This can cause confusion. CONFUSION is the the most difficult thing for a woman to overcome. Confusion is the enemy.... Some relationship advice is in order.
Show her that you WANT her back.... that you are COMMITTED to the relationship. This can be done most effectively by writing her a note telling her how you feel. Write from the heart.... make it personal.... agree to the break up, let her know that she made the right decision when deciding to break up, unless you broke up with her. In that case, you want to let her know that you made a mistake and want to be with her FOREVER. The key is to get rid of the negative emotions she is holding onto. Don't focus on the negative, instead recall the good times you had together. Remind her of the comfort she has in your arms.
A personal note is a good start, the 2nd change letter is what you need. It may not solve the problem, but it can help her to begin to open up to the idea of getting back together. A follow up letter or poem can be good at this point. She wants to be comforted, she wants to feel loved, needed. Don't BEG for her back. Simply aim to instill your love for her in her heart. Women are fragile and emotional, you can use this to your advantage. In your third letter to her, suggesting that you start over as friends is appropriate.
She may be afraid to get back together with you, but I bet she would not be so afraid to be your friend. Treat her like you did when you first met her. Look at her like she is everything to you. When she looks into your eyes, she will be able to tell how genuine your words are. Don't rush things.... Slow and steady wins the love race.... Get back with your ex girlfriend by taking your time.
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