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Can't keep your man? Do you wanna just give up and date girls instead?
Tired of dating the wrong men?
I understand. You aren't alone in this.
The truth is, The secret to how to keep a man is not about what kind of clothes you wear or how you put your make up on. It's not about the way you walk or even if you act more promiscuous. No you don't have to be a celebrity to keep a man. The answer is actually paradoxical. The answer is something you would probably never have thought of. The answer probably goes against your current beliefs.
No Secret Techniques
What you will be happy to know is that the answer doesn't involve any secret techniques. You can be happy knowing that the answer doesn't involve any manipulation. You can feel at peace knowing that the answer will definitely change the way you view things. Maybe even how men view you.
The Answer
Want the answer in a few short words? You may not like what you are about to read but be certain that these here are the only answers to a happy fulfilling relationship with a man. Well here is the answer or answers.
Are you sitting down? Good.
- Be Submissive
- Cook
- Clean
- Proper Conduct
- Sexual Satisfaction
- Be Quiet
Pretty simple huh? I bet you thought it was some wild mystical thing but really, It really is this simple. Try it before you knock it.
Keep on reading.
In Depth Explanation
Here's an explanation of everything stated above. Thank you for reading this far.
Be Submissive
The word submissive is self explanatory and it has nothing to do with being weak. It just means following and listening to the person who is taking care of you if you are under their care. For example, If you work for Sams Club you would be under the care of Sams Club or your boss. If you don't listen to your boss you will be fired or not paid. If you choose to be disorderly or talk back you will be disciplined. So in a Man and Woman scenario, you should listen to your man and follow his directions no matter what. Unless his directions are unethical. Yes he will make mistakes but don't judge him on them. He is only human like you. On the other hand, If your man is being lazy and you are the one in control making all the decisions, you may need a new man.
Cook
Men and women are created equal but we were made to fulfill different roles. The man is the hunter, the fighter, and the provider. He was made to use his strength for good. To protect. The woman is made to love and nurture. To have a feast prepared for her man after he comes home from a long day of work.
If your man is lazy or he seems “weak” then he may need some encouragement. He is still a man. He just needs to realize and remember this. Maybe you can encourage him. Let him know how much you love him and how much of a man he is. Even if you don't feel like he is. I promise he will start to act like one. If not, Then you leaving him will probably help him realize this.
Clean
I know this is also self explanatory. The house should be spotless when he comes home. You don't have to clean every single day and honestly you can break it down into sections. Different cleaning for different days of the week.
Example:
Sunday Laundry, Iron
Monday Full clean
Tuesday wipe down, do dishes
Wednesday dust
Thursday Mop
Friday Vacuum
Saturday Relax
Certain things will have to be done everyday like doing the dishes but at least you don't have to clean everything every single day. Oh and the trash, The man can do it. That also goes with cutting the grass and washing the cars.
Proper Conduct
Act like a woman and dress like a woman with morals. Take care of the kids. Respect your man. Realize he is the head of the household. This doesn't mean you can't work. Honestly though, Taking care of the household is a very important job.
Sexual Satisfaction
There is one thing all men love and a woman should have no problem attending to a mans every need. As long as he's doing his part why should you even have a problem pleasing him? It is your duty and only good can come from it. If your man isn't pleased sexual or if you constantly choose to hold back from him sexual needs. What's to keep him faithful to you?
Be Quiet
Also known as knowing when to hold your tongue. It's one of the greatest skills to have as a human being. Don't scream and don't yell at your man. When he tells you to do something and you don't like it. Don't get smart with him and don't complain. Just do what he tells you and put a smile on your face.
I know it's hard taking care of all the bills and making all the decisions while he just sits there. I'm sorry you have to go through that. If that is the kind of man you have then yes you probably do need a new man and I can understand your frustrations. Or you can build him up. Help him recover his confidence.
That's it. Its all here for you. The Blueprint on How to Keep a Man. I will later be creating a series on how to find a good man. It seems hard nowadays to find one. Nothing is impossible. I hope I have truly helped you.
If you have any questions don't be afraid to leave me a comment and I'll get back to you very soon.
Take care and have a great day.
Kris
P.S.
Men should be allowed to hang out with male friends. Vice versa women should be allowed to hang out with woman friends. Matter of fact, It's a necessity to have these friends.
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