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I hear from a lot of guys that constantly bring up their past as a reason and excuse for not being successful in the dating world today. I hear them blame their exes for the reasons why they are how they are currently. Or just generally blame their past circumstances and behaviors on many things in their past.

They have convinced themselves that the reason why they can't go out and meet women is because they have "always been shy" or that they have "never had luck with the ladies". The truth is that none of that matters, its all BS. Your past is your past and that's where you should leave it. Your past has nothing to do with your future. So stop harping on it, stop holding on to it like its some sort of security blanket and simply let it go.

You'll see that once you let go of these old theories and beliefs that you're defined by events in your past you will begin to truly live life and enjoy everything it has to offer. Everything including the beautiful women that bless us with there presence each and every day. They're out there just waiting for you to snap out of it and sweep them off their feet. The only thing that's is keeping you from all of them is yourself.

So please, for your own sake, stop holding on to the past and leave all that noise behind you. Move forward with your life, seize the day, and accomplish everything you have ever wanted. As men we can not continually go through life blaming every woman we meet as if she is the one from our past that burned us. Sometimes bad things happen and unfortunately people get cheated on the key is to not let that define you and control the rest of your life and the decisions you make especially when it comes to the opposite sex. Realize it was an isolated incident and move forward being better, smarter, stronger.

I've never steered you wrong or lied to you with any of my tips or advice and this instance is no different. Live your life how you want and break free from the restraints you've placed on yourself. This is the only way you will ever be able to find real happiness as well as any success with the women in your life is moving forward. It's all on you.


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My mouth is full of testimonies, Am miss PRECIOUS E my husband left the home for two years to south Africa for a tourist, where he meant this prostitute and he was bewitch by the girl my husband refuse to come back home again, i cry day and night looking for who to help me, i read a news paper about a powerful spell caster called Dr Abulu and i contacted the spell caster to help me get my lover back to me and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods we fight for me.. he told me by mid-night when all the spirit is at rest he will cast a spell to reunite my lover back to me. and he did in less than 3 days my husband came back to me and started crying that i should for forgive him, i,m so happy for what this spell caster did for me and my husband.. Dr Abulu of abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo com

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