Are you feeling lonesomeness deep down in your veins? Are you feeling like you’re the only person on earth who is unhappy, lonely and sad? Someone like who lost their better-half?

And, do you get jealous of your friends when you see them smile, laugh and cheer when they get text messages from their lovers? When they get ready with excitement before they meet with their boyfriends?

Do not cry! Do not sulk! Here are some tips that would help you to get your ex boyfriend back.

Girls are more emotional than men as we know, thus, they build stronger bonds connected to their lovers, and once they get attached it is difficult to fall apart from them. Hence, it is girls, for most of the times, who chase the boys, who run after them and who try to get their attention.

If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, simply follow these tips:

1. Understand and analyze the situation: If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, you should know exactly the reason behind your break up. Consider the reasons as grounds for the break-up and afterwards we’ll try and find solutions to those problems.

2. Love yourself: Acknowledge this one thing that you deserve all the best and you’re worth it. It is now time for you to save some time for yourself. Know your worth and learn to love yourself. Always remember that loving oneself is important for having the ability to share it with others.

3. Relax: It will be good for you to have some space in life after a break up, for it will feel like a pause after a period of rough-and-tumble. Reconsider your past relationship; think in a profound sense whether you can be with your ex for the rest of your life or not, think whether he is the one for you. Calm down and let go of all the anger and hatred; mull over the “goods” and “bads” of the relationship, think whether you were ‘really’ happy. Meet with your friends, spend time with them, do not lock yourself up in your room to morn over the fact that you two are not together any longer, rather try and see whether you can be happy without him; whether you will feel his absence, his presence in your life.

4. Call him: When you go over the above mentioned period, call him. Have a random conversation, ask how he’s been doing, how his life has been going on and just chatter about daily stuff. Avoid going into deeper subjects; such as the problems that you’ve had to go through your relationship. If you think that it will be difficult for you to call him and hear his voice, then you can either send a text message or an email; for it is always easier to write than to tell.

5. Ask him out: After you get in touch with him again and if things work out nicely, if you can see whether you can work out certain things like the problems that you’ve been facing when you used be together, then you can start talking about the problems that caused the split up and try to find solutions to amend the faults that belong to both sides.

These tips are simple guides that would lead you to find ways in sorting out the difficulties in your relationship with your boyfriend and to get your ex boyfriend back, but still it depends on you and your ex to decide whether you can still be together or not. Mostly you get a positive response after this procedure however if it’s the other way around then it is time to move on. Maybe it will be the end of your story but you always have yourself to live other stories. Let time heal your broken heart and you’ll surely be happy once again when you once again love, and be loved in return. Nevertheless, there’s never harm in trying; you should always have confidence within yourself, be sincere and see how things work out for you two. Always remember these tips and also continue to learn more to get your ex boyfriend back.