Men have moods, just like women. The right mood for the right occasion is vital if you're aiming to have a good time with your man. In our fast paced world, people have barely any time to relax, let alone date. If you're in a relationship, you're one of the lucky ones! Thing is, setting the mood for a date is very important, even if both of you are already together! The wrong mood can totally spoil what should have been a great evening.

Switch his mood from stressed out worker to suave don juan and your evening will progress like a charm. You don't necessarily need to know everything about him, but if you can remember the little things that he likes and dislikes, this could have a huge effect on his mood. Knowing what makes him feel good, romantic and manly will go a long way to improving your relationship with him because this will make him feel like you understand him!

Traditionally, men are the ones who do all the romance, but deep down inside, men want their women to romance them back. What you can do is flip the tables on him and be the one who initiates things. Most men will be pleasantly surprised and this will improve the atmosphere greatly. The fact that you put in the effort to make him happy will send him over the moon. Men and women both love to know that they are appreciated.

Perhaps instead of going to a restaurant, you could invite him over for a sensual candlelit dinner that you made. If your culinary skills are lacking, don't be afraid to order food from a restaurant or a diner. It doesn't really matter what a man eats, as long as he eats with you. It is not so much the material presence as the emotional bonding that happens when he sees you truly caring for him and making an effort to make sure the relationship works.

If he is not in the mood for romancing, try asking him what he would like to do. Perhaps he wants to watch a show or the big game coming up. Maybe he just wants to stay in and spend some time relaxing with you by his side. Spending quality time with him will make him yearn for you more because ultimately, it is you that will make him happiest.

Remember men are humans too. They have their own ups and downs just like you and are constantly searching for someone who will weather the storm with them, just as they will stand steadfast by your side when you are in need of support and help.

Understanding men is not that difficult. Though we do come across as confusing and aloof sometimes, we are merely humans trying to make our way in the world and looking for someone who will compliment us on our journey in life.