Want to learn how to build confidence with women? Here's a question for you...what is the number one characteristics that all women are into? Perhaps you believe women want men who are movie star attractive. Perhaps you think it's unbelievable career success. Or perhaps you believe it's what you own, like a cool car or beautiful house.

I'd be lying to you if I said none of this mattered. But the questions was what's the number one characteristic...and that's self-confidence. Or more specifically, sexual self-confidence. And it has nothing to do with feeling smug after pleasuring a woman in the bedroom. Although that does help. This type of sexual self-confidence is the type of confidence that a guy has when he can attract the opposite sex naturally, without "lines" or "pickup material" or a planned-out routine to do it.

The kind of guy I'm talking about just knows that he's irresistible and he's great with people. He is the guy that everyone stops to look at when he walks in the room. And don't start freaking out because you think you're not a "head-turner" and you don't own a cool car. This article is about you, not your stuff or how you look. Because once you put a high value on yourself, women will be powerfully attracted to you.

Fact: If You Believe Your Not Attractive, You Will Be

Picture a woman...the kind of woman who sits on the fringes of society. She sits by herself, shoulders slumped and it does not matter what she's wearing or what she looks like. No one notices her. Why? She either does not want them to or she does not think they will notice her.

Now think about the kind of image you project to the world. Be honest and really think about how you act when you walk out the front door. You have to act, project, talk and believe that you are attractive, no excuses. Becoming sexually self-confident starts here.

Fact: If You Don't Like How You Look, Change It

How many "make-over" shows are there out there? Change your hair, wardrobe and even weight. And these are not just for women. But you don't need to go on reality TV to make drastic changes.

If your overweight, start a weight loss program. If your out of shape, join a gym. If you don't your wardrobe does not project the kind of man you want to be, just as someone you admire and trust for help. Learning how to build confidence with women takes initiative and if you need help, just ask.

Fact: No One Can Make These Changes Except You

So at this point its all about excuses. I know your thinking about why you can't attract women. A leopard can't change its spots and all that. But if you put limitations on yourself, you will obviously be limited. You won't change or grow, and you won't get the kind of women you want.

If your still reading this article, I know you want to make changes. If your asking how to build confidence with women, your ready to start living the kind of life you dream about. It's easy to open the door, but hard to walk through. Take that next step and become the sexually self-confident guy you wan to be.