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How to Find My True Love

I have often thought about how to find my true love? How to find that special man that will be in my life forever? Perhaps some tips about finding love would be helpful to start the journey, a new understanding of men, to get me on my way to find my true love, the Knight of my dreams. How about you?

Let's look at a tip which might help with how to find my true love but first let's look at some new insights into relationships.

True Love Movie Style

We all grow up with our own principles and beliefs about of love. Some of it will come from family and friends. Some will come from watching people around us and then there are the movies. Movies are infamous for the biggest and strongest guys 'always getting the girl' and 'sweeping her off her feet'.

So boys grow up knowing that a sense of courage and strength are needed to 'get the girl' and find true love. Girls grew up wanting the Knight in shining armor, the one that will carrying her away to the place where dreams. So how do I find my true love, my Knight.

Longing For My Knight

In effect, reality is not too far from the movies metaphorically speaking. Guys, like the courageous Knights of old, shield themselves beneath their armor ready for battle.

The girls, like the damsel in distress sit patiently waiting for their Knight to come and rescue them singledom. People are still people at the end of the day, no matter which century they may be from.

Get Him To Take Off His Armor

The question then is how do we let the Knight know that he is safe to let down his shield and take off his armor. Perhaps we can get a few clues or tips from the Knights of old. These knights would do things slowly so that they were never left vulnerable.

To start, they may drop their shield, then remove their helmet, their arm guards, their leg guards and then last of all their breastplate which protected their heart. Slowly piece by piece they would drop their guard. Does this give you a tip about how to find my true love in the arms of my Knight?

Discover The Real Him

It does. He is longing for someone to discover the real him and that is what makes him feel secure enough to let down his shield. This tip, will give you an insight and lead you to how to read the signs he likes me.

There are many more insights that will help you find the quickest way to your Knight's heart and into the loving relationship that you deserve. Read more about how to find a soul mate, true love and ensure that you are the damsel that your knight will take off his armor for.


Street Talk

desi  

how do you know you love someone?

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  about 9 years ago

My lover father can,t agree for my proposal.that don,t know about our love relation. so what i do to get my love?because i can,t live without her.

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  about 9 years ago

Great article Gayle, emotions are a tough subject. Especially, when someone has had bad experiences with relationships. It's hard to let down your guard and let someone in. It's a shame having to live that way, because trust is so important in a relationship.

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  about 9 years ago

Spot on Robert, each time you are hurt it takes a little bit longer each time.

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  about 9 years ago

Trust is the part of the relationship that makes everything else work and make everything else easy. The trouble is that past woes and bad relationships can make it difficult for some people to let down their guard. There are ways through it though

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  about 9 years ago
melissa3  

Very well written and true. My husband and I took it very slow in the beginning since we were both hurt in the past. We just enjoyed learning about each other and slowly, but surely, both our guards came down.

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  about 9 years ago

That is fabulous, yes I think in the beginning especially we are all too eager to move things along rather than just being in the moment and enjoying to freshness of it all.

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  about 9 years ago
Joan S  

Gayle, I am clueless on this topic. You're right when you say the other person has to feel safe enough to let down his shield, such as showing his vulnerable side and not being trounced for it. It's trust.

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  about 9 years ago

I think that relationships without trust are doomed to failure. And vulnerability is only possible with trust otherwise there is a big risk of being 'trounced'. Funny when woman and being vulnerable they are sometimes called 'being emotional' but not men.

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  about 9 years ago

Good one again Gayle, like where you are going...

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  about 9 years ago

Thanks Rob appreciate your support. G

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  about 9 years ago

Excellent article Gayle, you did a great job, on this one.

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  about 9 years ago

Thanks Alfred, I appreciate you stopping by

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  about 9 years ago

Nice article, Gayle, this "How to Find My True Love" that you've written as your second article here. Good job! Best wishes as you write more about, "How to Find My True Love" - and find your Knight:-) blessings, Cynthia

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  about 9 years ago

Thanks again Cynthia yes slowly but surely I am enjoying writing the articles it is a wonderful expressive outlet

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  about 9 years ago

And you're doing a great job!

  
  about 9 years ago
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