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How To Get A Boyfriend In A Day

When you're young you want everything fast and quickly, including a boyfriend. So if you're wondering how to get a boyfriend in a day, you'll have to hear the hard truth. Thinking like this is only going to hurt you. Don't get me wrong, it could happen, you could get lucky and bump into a great guy just out of the blue. But you are way more likely to just end up with some creepy player dude, or worse, someone who means you a lot of harm.

So how do you go about getting a boyfriend the right way? Here is something you should consider. Guys are often very shy towards women, especially women who they find attractive, because most men have a fear of rejection. It helps a lot if you make an effort not to be shy yourself, to reach out to them in a friendly way that doesn't put any pressure on them. Smile often and be friendly, this allows men to feel comfortable around you, which leads to them liking you, and possibly to start thinking about you being girlfriend material.

The thing about being desperate and pushing too hard is that the guy feels that the things he does or says will be taken too seriously. He doesn't want to commit to something before knowing you well. If you push too hard or appear too needy, he will feel like any positive gesture he makes towards you (which includes even just paying attention to you) will be understood as him saying he wants to be your boyfriend. Take your time to get to know him, and him you. Don't push it and don't rush it. There really isn't a way to get a quality boyfriend in a day, all relationships take time.

Another thing to consider is that guys like to do stuff. They love doing things, not talking about them. So a great way to meet guys and get to know them better is for you to also do things. Find something you like doing and that lots of men like doing. Like rock climbing, skiing, biking, bowling, etc. You'll have something in common with guys you can use to start a conversation with. You'll have activities that you'll feel comfortable doing and that you enjoy. So you'll be able to hang out without the pressure of "dating".

Don't neglect the value of having guy friends. Not only could you end up evolving the relationship into a romantic one, but by having guy friends you get to meet other guys that are in his social circle. The more guys you meet the more likely you are to find one that is a good match for you.

Also, don't forget to take good care of yourself. I don't just mean your appearance, though that is always good to take care of. Make sure you have an active life regardless of whether you have a boyfriend or not. Develop good friendships with other girls and cultivate your interests. The more you do this, the cooler you are as a person and the more guys will find you attractive.

Following this advice will make you stop asking about how to get a boyfriend in a day, because you will attract men naturally just by living your life. And you will have many men thinking about you as girl friend material, and when you're ready, marriage material.

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