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How To Get A Date With A Girl Whose Crazy Hot
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How to get a date with a girl.

There she is… the one, the girl of your dreams, the future mother of your children. You stand in line watching her every move, the way she froths the milk, the way she grinds the coffee, her well fitted shirt, so hot. She’s been your girlfriend for months now, in your head anyway, you just haven’t gotten round to telling her yet. Well today’s the day, you’re a few people away from the counter and feeling particularly confident, when she asks for my order I’m just going to lean casually against the counter, smile right at her and say hey, I’ve been coming into this coffee shop for 3 months now and in all honesty I don’t even like coffee, how about we put an end to this right now, you give me your number and let me take you out. Really she’ll say, I can’t believe it (blushing), I’ve been thinking about you this whole time too, I get so hot when ever I see you (biting her bottom lip) I just cant take it any more, she rips open her shirt, sweeps the counter of everything on it and says I want you, right here! Right now!”

“Good morning can I take your order” (Startled out of the daydream)

“Yes… er.. can I take a large coffee to go please” shuffling the paper and looking everywhere but her eyes.

You try with all you might but you can’t help taking a few snap shots of her ripe cleavage. Its fullness leaves your mind completely blank, ok time to talk to her, what was I going to say? What was it? Something about cleavage, no that’s not it, something about something, quick! Fill the silence it’s your turn to speak, she’s waiting for a response, quick say something, be smooth, no tell a joke, run! Recite poetry!! Anything!!!

"Excuse me…err… do you have the time?"

Puzzled, she slowly looks up at the over sized clock on the wall behind her,

“It’s 8.30am, is there anything else I can help you with”

“Oh ok… no thank you” you pay, tip, turn and head straight for the door.

All too familiar as this was once me.

So how do you do it? How to get a date with a girl you’re attracted to? Be it in a café, walking down the street, waiting in line, they’re everywhere right? but how do you cross that all too sacred bridge to heaven. I’m going to let you in on a little secret, a well-earned secret that took me hours, days, months, even years to learn. Here it is… Are you ready…? Forget everything you think you know, sorry to be the one to tell you, but you’ve been tricked, cheated, lied to, mislead, bamboozled.

Let me explain.

Since birth you have been utterly (yet often unintentionally) brainwashed into believing deep down that the most attractive girls are out of reach, there not for you, there for the rock stars, the rich guys, the chiseled models or the uber intelligent. This (excuse my French) is bullshit, I know as I have dated some of the most beautiful women imaginable and it’s just not true. Unfortunately, it is this belief that steals your voice or pins you to the floor whenever she walks past. So how do you get a date with a girl whose ridiculously hot? Change your thinking.

The truth really is, you can date the girl in the coffee shop, I guarantee it, but (…there’s always a but right?!) you have to be willing to take action, she will not come to you, the best things in life never just land neatly packaged onto your lap, you have to be willing to fight for her. The only thing that stops you from getting the girl of your dreams is your internal willingness to make a stand, to take action, to be truly who you are fully, its all about your mindset. Scary to believe I know, how much easier is it to hide in the safely of the lies you’ve always been taught, to blame something external or out of your control for not having her, girls that hot don’t date guys like me. Ill tell you straight up, they do, I have seen it with my own eyes.

Your first step is stop taking the easy road and challenge that belief, find the courage to follow that scary uncomfortable road of “what if” and your life will never look the same again.

Here’s a few tips to get you started on how to get a date with a girl you like.

• Actions speak louder then words. She wants to know you, she really does, but she wants to know you through your actions as well as your words. Most of the battle is won by simply taking action. In simple terms, do something. You’ll be amazed at what happens when you take action.

• Become better at failing. The most successful people have always had the most failures, accepting the possibility of failure will set you free, remember if she says no she’s not rejecting you, she’s rejecting your advance, don’t take it personally who knows what’s going on in her world.

• Seeing is believing. Spend the first 10 minutes of every day visualizing yourself approaching the girl of your dreams, see it in your mind over and over, what do you say? How does she react? Getting over the obstacles in your head is a huge step and shouldn’t be ignored, being able to confidently approach her in your mind will make it much easier in real life. It will make a huge difference.

Changing your mindset can (but not always) take some time and effort but remember if you are asking yourself how do I get a date with a girl I like then you’re in the right starting place. Don’t be put off if you don’t change your thinking over night, give it time and learn to enjoy every step of the process, never give up, fight for it, keep at it, keep learning and you’ll see that anything is possible.

Jack Carter.


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