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How To Get The Man You Want To Want You Back
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How to Get the Man You Want to Want You Back

Feeling lonely and trying to figure out how to get the man you want to like you back? Being single can be fun but sometimes you also can’t help but feel lonely and yearn for someone to love you. There may be a guy that you want to be romantically involved with but you don’t know how to make him come to you.

The good news is, there are several tips when it comes to “how to get the man you want to want you back.” If you want him to be interested in you or at least get his attention, here’s what you need to do.

Be confident

What is confidence? It’s definitely not bragging about yourself and your many accomplishments. It’s also not about putting other people down so you can feel better about yourself. But rather, confidence is about feeling secure about who you are, where you are now, and where you’re going. It’s about having your own identity and your own life.

When you have your own life, you have your own friends and your own ways to entertain yourself. You don’t depend your happiness on anyone, especially a man. You are aware of your limitations and you don’t put people down or make them feel bad just so you can say that you’re better than them. You also don’t care what other people think about you or you don’t let criticisms get you down.

Avoid desperation

There are a lot of single women who are in their thirties who think that time is running out. So when they snag a guy, they think that he’s the one and started going over the wedding arrangements in their heads.

But that’s not how it’s supposed to be. You’re only going to scare him away if you act all needy and cling to him. If you don’t want him to leave you standing there all by your lonesome then pull yourself together and don’t be desperate for marriage. You need to take things slow and give it time to develop into something deeper – preferably a deep and profound relationship.

Make his friends like you too

If his friends like you and think you’re great then he’s going to start to think the same thing. Besides, if you get along well with your friends then that’s a plus for you. He doesn’t have to worry about his friends liking or getting their approval (not that he needs their approval, but it does help).

If they think you’re great then they’re going to have a lot of positive things to say about you. He’s going to think you’re great too because they keep saying nice things about you and soon he’ll start to like you as well.

Keep him wanting more

Be a little mysterious and don’t tell him everything about you. You don’t have to spill your entire life story in one conversation. In fact, it would be even better if you keep him hanging during a conversation.

How to get the man you want? You have to keep him wanting more. This means that you have to make sure he doesn’t lose interest in you too quickly. Don’t be always available to talk or go out with him and be a little mysterious.


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