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Being scared of women is nothing new...
However, like anything else in life. One of the biggest creators of fear is not having the right information, skills, or the practice to give yourself the confidence you need. Imagine if you were trying to do surgery but you had no medical training. To say you would be scared would be an understatement.
The same is true of women. Most of the trouble men have when it comes to getting over their fear of women is that no one has ever taught them how to behave with women. Especially when it comes to attraction.
When you have the right skill set and you have practiced with those skills and see that they work your confidence naturally increases. This just the way life works. So at least part of your fear of women is not knowing what to do with women.
Luckily for you, there has been some cutting-edge research lately in the fields of Behavioral and Evolutionary psychology that break down attraction and social interaction into understandable chunks. On top of that a few brilliant people who have taken that information out into the world and found ways to use those discoveries to make every interaction with people and especially women amazing.
So by learning the exact things that you need to do with women and seeing over and over again that they work. You can completely crush any and all fear of women that you have.
The interesting and amazing thing is that much of this research into how to attract and relate to women also includes techniques called "inner game". Inner game refers to the way you feel habitually about yourself and women. The reactions you have with women are actually habits in a way.
Every time you worried about being around women or ran through images in your head about what might happen. You were actually building that behavior in yourself. The fear creates a self-perpetuating loop that reinforces that behavior. Much like athletes mentally rehearse in there heads for success you can also rehearse failure without being aware of it.
Women react to the fear that your putting off (not to you) and it makes it seem like the fear was right. The funny thing is if you had the skills and techniques you needed and felt comfortable using them, women would respond in a much different and positive way. This positive reaction from her will lead to a self reinforcing loop that you have the skills and confidence you need. To overcome your fear of women all you need is the skills that leads to the confidence that let's you know your totally safe and confident with women.
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