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If You Are Looking to Catch A Lady, You Must Be A Gentleman

If you are a man in the dating world and are looking to settle down, chances are you are looking for a lady. A female companion who will honor, support and love you. One who shows polite manners and courtesy in a variety of different situations. The good news is, there are many beautiful single ladies available -- the only thing is, in order to catch one, you must be a gentleman.

Here are six characteristics of a true gentleman:

1. Control Your Anger

A true gentleman is one who can navigate his circumstances such that he doesn’t escalate tempers in a situation. Better yet he removes himself before anger becomes an option. The control of his tongue and his anger comes from a great awareness of himself and his surroundings as well as good people skills.

2.Live with Integrity - Even When No One is Looking

This goes for all situations - in business, on your taxes, on the golf course and with friends and family. It is about doing what you say and saying what you do. When a consistent life of integrity, your word becomes very powerful. People trust you with business deals; relatives trust you with family matters and the lady you are courting trusts you with her heart.

3. Help Others

This can range from helping an elderly woman cross the street to helping a friend move. Other activities that fall under this category are volunteering at your church or the local youth center. Donating to worthy causes or mentoring a child. By giving of yourself to others, you show that there is more in your world than just you.

4. Always be expanding your wealth of knowledge

I am not talking multiple college degrees or the Cliff Claven school of facts - I am referring to expanding your general bank of knowledge that will allow you the ability to carry on a conversation with a variety of different people. A great way to expand your knowledge is to work on your communication skills and learn through others that you meet.

5. Initiate the First Date

A true lady will wait for the gentleman to ask her out - especially for a first date. If you want to be treated like a man and not emasculated, step up and take some control. That doesn’t mean force her to do something she doesn’t want to do - it means take the lead and do the asking. First dates, even though they can be a little bit nerve wracking, can be a ton of fun too! Show your listening skills and plan an outing that will be enjoyable for both of you.

6. Cherish Your Lady

All women need to feel cherished and secure. Women are different with how they like to be shown your affection. For example some like to receive flowers. Others would prefer you to change the oil in her car, while others just want some special time with you. The one thing that you can do in the presence of any lady is not oogle and comment on other women. Even if the woman you are with tells you she doesn’t mind or she understands that men look at other women; a gentleman spends the time with his lady focused on her and works to make her feel special and cherished.

In searching for a life partner, the key to finding a good mate is by being a good mate. So start with improving yourself and acting like a gentleman. Once you start playing up your game, you will be amazed at the quality women that you begin to attract.


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Nice article -) I remember that when I go out on a date -)

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