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I\'m Just Not That Into You

So you have been dating this guy/girl and they seem like the kind of person that you should be with. They are stable, reliable, trustworthy and they love you to bits, plus they are all the other things that a good relationship requires. Even though you love this person and know that you should probably want to spend the rest of your life with them, deep down you think that they are BORING BORING BORING!!!

So what do you do?? Do you stay with them in the hope that you will begin to feel differently and start to love them the way that they love you, or do you kick em to the kerb?

This is quite a difficult relationship to be in, just because you might love a person, that does not neccessarily mean that you can be in a long term relationship with them. It migt be easier to just be friends and let them find love with another. A friend of mine was in a relationshiop for a good couple of years just “trying to make it work” because she knew that this guy loved her so much and that he would do anything for her, and she spent her time trying to love him back, and making herself truly miserable in the process.

The key to making any kind of relationship work is to ensure that your are happy within yourself, it might seem really selfish and self centered to say this, but you have to think of yourself and remember that it is not anybody else’s job to make you happy. If something does not feel right or someone is not making you happy then you have to move on and surround yourself with people you want to be around. This is also a lot fairer on your partner as well, who can most probably feel your half hearted attempt at loving them, and is trying to hold on to you for dear life. Let them go, let them be free so that you can go on to find a love which is true for you.

Remember that love should not feel forced or pressurized in any way, it should be easy and care free, compatible for both parties in every way. Neither party should love the other more or less than the other, it should be completely effortless, equal and natural.

Enjoy love, Enjoy Life and remember that if doesn't feel right then it isn't right!!


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bianca1  

my name is mccart i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a woman told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so she told me that she was going to make all things normal back. she did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this woman her name is Dr Aluta she have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact her who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem she will solve it for you. her email is traditionalspellhospital@gmail. com, she is a woman and she is great

Reply
  about 6 years ago
bianca1  

my name is mccart i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a woman told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so she told me that she was going to make all things normal back. she did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this woman her name is Dr Aluta she have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact her who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem she will solve it for you. her email is traditionalspellhospital@gmail. com, she is a woman and she is great

Reply
  about 6 years ago
bianca1  

my name is mccart i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a woman told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so she told me that she was going to make all things normal back. she did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this woman her name is Dr Aluta she have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact her who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem she will solve it for you. her email is traditionalspellhospital@gmail. com, she is a woman and she is great

Reply
  about 6 years ago
bianca1  

my name is mccart i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a woman told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so she told me that she was going to make all things normal back. she did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this woman her name is Dr Aluta she have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact her who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem she will solve it for you. her email is traditionalspellhospital@gmail. com, she is a woman and she is great

Reply
  about 6 years ago
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