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Learn To Attract Men – Heads Up On These 5 Common Mistakes
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Learn to Attract Men – Heads Up on These 5 Common Mistakes

A lot of women want to learn to attract men. They want to know what makes men tick, how to get their attention, what makes them say “Man, she’s hot!”

Is there a particular guy you like and that’s why you want to learn to attract men? In that case, you need to steer clear of a few common women make when it comes to attracting the opposite sex.

Creating a gap with your differences

You’re unique and a man can be intrigued by that but at the same time he needs to see himself in you. When you’re out on a date with him, don’t be too eager to tell him all the wonderful things you’ve done. You may be creating a gap between you and him because he’s realizing that you’re too different from him. Don’t let him think that he doesn’t have anything in common with you. You need to create a bond and emphasize what you have in common so that he will be attracted to you.

Forgetting to smile

It sounds so simple and yet it’s essential when you want to attract your man. A lot of men are attracted to women who smile a lot. You may be feeling nervous going out with him or even talking to him but you need to remember to smile. If you just frown then he’s going to think you’re not the friendly type and he may think twice about being with you. Besides, a woman who smiles a lot also gives the impression that she’s confident. So the next time you see him, don’t forget to smile!

Showing your insecurities

We all have our doubts and there are times when we doubt ourselves. But when you’re with a man then you need to show him your confidence rather than your insecurities. Showing your low self-esteem to a guy is a common mistake most women make. When you doubt yourself then subconsciously he thinks you’re not good enough. You need to turn this around and make him think that you’re confident and the kind of woman he wants to be with.

Being too aggressive

Men do like feisty and independent women. But don’t go overboard and act all controlling and cross the line from feminine to masculine. Sometimes, you do need to tone it down a bit and start emphasizing your feminine qualities. Be sweet and sensitive without getting rid of your independence and assertiveness.

You’re too easy

You like him a lot and you want to be with him. Does that mean you have to available for him all the time? If you want to learn to attract men, then remember that men love a challenge. If you’re too easy to get then there’s no challenge in that and he might quickly lose interest in you. If he calls you and asks you if you’re available on Friday, don’t immediately say “yes.” Pretend that you have to look into your schedule first. After all, you want him to think you have a life.


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