If you are like me, you may have practically pulled all you hair out trying to figure out how to win her heart back. If there’s one thing I’ve learned through the years, it’s that women are sensitive, fragile, complex, and yes… DIFFICULT to understand. You don’t need to understand how a woman thinks to get her back. You need to understand how to make her trust you with her heart again.
Is it possible to get back together with an ex? Of course it is. The important question is, HOW can I get back together with my ex girlfriend?
The answer is not simple because people are different and every situation is different. Sometimes a simple text message saying I LOVE YOU in all caps is enough to make her come back to you. It’s worked for me before. If you are lucky enough for that to work, then you are lucky.
It could take a lot more than a simple text message to get back together with your ex girlfriend. You could start by trying to call and talk to her.
#1 RULE to remember. No yelling or arguing!
In some situations, this can be difficult. I found a fool proof way to avoid this problem. If she yells at you or sounds like she is trying to start an argument, take a deep breath and just calmly say I LOVE YOU. It may sound dumb, but it works. I’m not sure if it’s just because she gets confused and forgets what she was yelling or arguing about, but it does work. If it doesn’t work the first time, say it again, and again.
Some of the responses you may receive include: I love you too, What are you talking about?, silence, Do you really?, etc. As you can see, any of these responses give you the opportunity to talk to her and tell you how you feel about her. There may still be some tension between you, but it is a HUGE step in the right direction of getting your ex girlfriend back.
If you have trouble controlling your temper when you are being yelled at, join the club. I have put many holes in walls because of women yelling and screaming at me. Will you get back with your girlfriend if this happens? When it gets down to possible losing your true love, here is how you can control yourself:
-Tune out what is being said, look her in the eye as if you were listening, but take none of it to heart. When she gives you a break, simply state, I love you. No matter how she reacts, hold strong until she can talk to you in a calm voice. Get back together with your ex girlfriend using self control.
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