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Moving Past The Fear Of Approaching Women
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Many men have to deal with the fear of approaching women. If you're one of them, you're definitely not alone. I was like this, myself, for many years.

I bet you can picture it: the shy man who's probably got a great job, grea tlooks, and a ton of awesome things going for him. But he's just too nervous to approach the women he's interested in.

Why is this? It's all based around fear.

Fear is a powerful force in our lives. Sometimes it becomes so strong, it paralyzes us. Unfortunately, fear is also a very real barrier for many men who want to have success with women.

But like all barriers in life, it can be overcome.

To move past the fear of approaching women, you can basically do three things:

1. Simply suck it up and go for it.

This is the highest risk method, but also typically the fastest route to overcoming fear. By just saying, "I'm going to do this no matter what," you're just owning the fear and going for what you want.

The downside is you're opening up yourself to rejection - but it's a risk you may just have to take.

2. Start reading books or listening to audio files on facing the fear of failure.

You can reprogram yourself to face your fears with ease and confidence if you start listening to self-help materials on personal improvement. There are many out there about facing fear and overcoming it.

You can also read helpful ebooks on facing your fears. Many of these have techniques and tips that you can implement in everyday life to overcome your fears.

3. Use a combination of methods.

This is my personal favorite, as it will have multiple benefits on your life including improved self-confidence, ease with approaching women, and also you'll probably see improvements in your career as well.

This technique involves using a combination of exercise (simple 30 minutes of aerobic activity every few days is a good start, if you've never exercised before), reading self-help books, and putting the techniques you learn into practice.

To recap:

The fear of approaching women is founded on our fear of rejection.

To overcome the fear, we can just go out and face it, or use a combination of self-esteem and confidence boosting methods.

The more you face your fear and accept it, the less fearful you'll become, as you realize you are capable of dealing with - even welcoming - rejection. Why? Because it means you went for it.


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