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New at the Job? 10 Secret Steps to Starring with Your Co-Workers
More than any other single item, getting along with your co-workers is what will determine whether the job works for you. It determines how you feel about getting up and driving to work in the morning, how stressful the day is, and how secure you are about your future. In other words, are you comfortable with your co-workers in the job site?
The answer to that is, fortunately for you, entirely up to your skills at handling the Laws of the Universe as they apply to communicating with groups of people you hardly even know.
It may seen daunting to make an adjustment to new work and new people, but let me remind you exactly how you can become the star in your new business
Law no.1—The Law of Attraction. What goes around comes around. It fits right alongside the Golden Rule: Do Unto Others as You Would Have Them Do Unto You.
Law no.2—The Law of Divine Oneness. It is unlikely that you have noticed this invisible Law at work, but it is impossible not to be affected by it. In other words, sometimes the group virtually displays the “oneness” it cannot escape from. When that happens, you could not be working in a better place. To the degree that you zone in on the feeling of “oneness’, you will be recognized as someone special.
Law no.3—The Law of Cause and Effect. Without exception, if you cause an office problem, you will be the one who gets the nasty effect. It may not happen at once, but watch out.
Law no.4—The Law of Expectation. If you expect to be a star, go for it. Do not, under any circumstance, doubt your ability to become that star; stay with your dream because if you argue for your limitations, you are sure to achieve them.
Law no. 5—The Law of Vibration. The frequency of each person is unique to that person; some are solid as stone, some are flighty as faeries, and rest are some mixture in between. You will find your good companions by sensing the difference and shying away from conflicts. And, best of all, you will better define yourself. That will give you strength in all circumstances.
Law no.6---The Law of Action. Whatever you do, however you do it, you will find your actions speaking louder than words. The group will judge you on those actions; they will judge you on your words, and some will judge you on your thoughts, which are all too often transparent, too.
Law no.7—The Law of Reciprocity. What you give to others comes back to you. Give and give freely; give what it is that you want from others because that is what you will be given. The gift may not be returned from the receiver, but it will come.
Law no.8—The Law of Compensation. When you willingly give kindness, respect, helpfulness, & good cheer, you will, in return, be given good wages, good friends, and a joyous environment.
Law no.9—The Law of Forgiveness. Mistakes can and will be made, and for you, it is the opportunity to forgive. Give up any idea of getting even. Simply forgive. And, in turn, you, too, will be forgiven.
Law no. 10—The Law of Free Will. It is always at work. You get to choose and re-choose. Choose never to be spiteful and petty, jealous and boisterous, rude and crude. Choose to drop sincere compliments and smiles along your way.
The Laws are simple; they deserve to be thought about and lived by. Follow the Laws: your co-workers will love you, and you will be the next star and a very happy person.
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This is such an amazingly helpful and interesting article! Your style of writing is so readable and entertaining. I'll be on the look out for more articles from you.
You know, Sherry B., you are one sharp gal. Wm James, father of modern psychology, taught us that when you are happy, you smile, and when you smile, you are happy. I think you are living on a happy high. Think I'll join you!
Awesome article! I definitely agree with what you've written. It always helps so much to treat others as you want to be treated and to have a positive attitude even if you don't really want to be there...it shows and other people usually will act the same way after awhile. I know I don't like my job all that much, but I still go there with a positive attitude and a smile for everyone there, and so far I've gotten along just fine with all my coworkers. I always help my coworkers when I get done with what I was doing and they do the same for me, which makes for a much easier day for everyone.
Excellent article. I haven't seen these laws named before but as I read them they were making sense. I see this at work so often and as I read I wondered how many of these laws I follow? Thanks
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