Relationships as we all know can be extremely complex and no relationship is ever the same. This is in large extent due to an individual’s preference and tolerance to many things happening around their lives. Living alone as opposed to coping with someone around you are two very different things and a successful outcome of this depends on one’s level of maturity. Furthermore, the relationship between a couple are exacerbated by personalities and ‘reactionary’ component of the individual to their partner. I will try to explain this more clearly.

If we take a female called Y and two males M1 and M2 and initially put Y and M1 into a relationship with each other, the relationship will naturally be very different to the relationship between Y and M2. However, there are personality traits that can develop in say Y due to the relationship of M1 and not with M2 and vice versa. This implies that one’s behavior is adjusted to suit the relationship and effectively both individuals nature can change as a result. This naturally follows that no relationship can ever be equal and attempts to rectify a relationship between a couple can be very hard to do.Ultimately the only correction that can be done are to leave it to the individuals themselves.

It is no surprise that free online dating sites can have a hard time to figure out who is good for whom and try to do an extraction of match compatibility. The psychological differences that occur before and during a relationships makes it impossible to predict who can be a good match. However, there are certain traits that dating sites can follow to bring about suitable matches. Aside from the innate personalities of members on the site, some things such as interests, hobbies and generally a similar standard of upbringing can be used to pair up couples. This is because there are common interests where couples can pursue a relationship with a general acceptance of each other based on each individual’s merits. This maybe in interest, education, background, culture, race and many other factors.

With this in mind, the dating site cannot conduct any further calculations with regards to determining if the relationship will be good or a bad one. As explained earlier, once the relationship is underway the personalities of each will have a profound effect on the relationship. Who is to say that one individual is not aggressive or at times can be acutely aggressive. It’s very possible that in the example above that female Y shows acute symptoms of aggressive behavior with Male M1 whereas its not apparent with Male M2. One could conclude that Male M1 is naturally more aggressive than Male M2 but can we be absolutely certain?

It is clear that relationships cannot be studied with individuals personalities in isolation such as in the case of dating sites. However, the behavior of the individual within a relationship can be monitored to find patterns in human behavior and effectively predict an outcome of the relationship. This is can be extremely hard to do since most free dating sites are designed simply to bring two people together. Further improvements can be made by working backwards where the types of men and women that date are monitored. If they continue to date the same type of men and women without success then it could be concluded that the match was unsuitable. If someone dated a few times and canceled their service having found their partner this could be construed as a good match. One can then work backwards to examine the dating profiles of these couples to formulate further good matches within the dating service system.