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So You Have Been Dating For 2 Months?
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So You Have Been Dating for 2 Months?

Girls, you and your boyfriend have been dating for 2 months now and you are wondering where this relationship is headed. marriage or the gutter? Never rush a relationship and push him to do something he doesn't want to do, but it is never too early to look to the future. There are a few things you can look for in order to determine some important things about your relationship such as: what are your beliefs, and how does he treat you? All of these elements can give you a good idea of how your relationship will unfold.

Most importantly in determining your long term compatibility is where you both sit on religion and spiritual issues. I am a Christian and believe the Bible when it says we should not be unequally yoked in marriage; however, even if you aren't a Christian, I believe this is very good advice when you consider your date. If you both have different views on life, its meaning, and your values, then it will cause friction in your relationship. Ignoring these problems will only lead to worse problems down the road, especially if kids and marriage are involved.

Do yourself and your boyfriend a favor and talk about what you believe if you haven't already. It may seem strange the first time or two you bring it up, but I promise it will get easier. If he doesn't want to talk about beliefs at all, that should be a warning sign to you that he isn't serious.

That leads to another relationship indicator. If he is serious, even after you have only been dating for 2 months, the way he treats you can be a huge gauge of what he thinks about the relationship. You must demand the utmost respect for yourself, both emotionally and physically. If at this point in the relationship he is showing signs of emotional or physical abuse, you should stop now and talk with him about it. Don't think you will change him, it will only get worse.

On the flipside, you will know when you are being treated right. Pay attention to the way he talks to you and how he acts around you. Is he putting on a facade, or is he really himself around you? Does he pay attention when you are talking, or does he glaze over? Does he do small things for you like open the car door and surprise you with chocolate or flowers? All of these questions are important to consider when you are evaluating your relationship. If he isn't doing any of this after you have been dating for 2 months, he will likely not start doing them. While I do know that all of these signs aren't final, they can help determine how seriously he is going to take you and your relationship.

The best thing to do though if you are wondering what to do after you have been dating 2 months would be to talk with him about all of these things. It's okay if you don't know if he is destined to be your future husband or not yet. Though if there is foreshadowing that he isn't going to take your relationship seriously, I would consider moving on to avoid further hurt later.

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