Taking a break from a relationship is not always a bad thing; in fact, it can help you maintain a healthy relationship with your partner. Avoid broken relationship grief by hearing your boyfriend out. He may only care about you and want to avoid a nasty breakup.
There is tension in the air, arguments brewing, and a fight on the horizon. Your boyfriend speaks up and says “I think we need to take a break from each other.” Your heart clinches at his very words. A tear starts to form in your eye…. Why does he want to get away from me? Doesn’t he love me? The answer is,YES, he does love you and realizes that in order to avoid you ending up with a broken heart, it is probably best that you split ways for a little while.
TALK IT OVER…
Talk to your boyfriend about it. Chances are, it will strengthen your relationship and you will end up being closer as a result. This is NOT A BREAKUP. Agree to a time to be apart; agree that you will remain faithful to each other and this could turn out to be an answer to many of your relationship problems.
Agree to start over fresh when you get back together. This experience could be exciting. The tension will build as you await getting back together with your boyfriend. When the day arrives, it will be like you are getting together for the first time. Remember, the feelings you felt when you first got together? These feelings can now be renewed and a new spark will be added to your love life.
PLAN A NIGHT ALONE….
Set a date and plan to spend the night alone getting to know each other again. This can be a much anticipated, exciting experience for both of you. It’s an opportunity to start fresh when you get back together with your ex boyfriend. Not many people get a chance like this! Getting back your ex is not always easy. If you love each other and forth the effort, you will win back your ex.
SO, TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT…..
Make sure you set an exact time frame and rules such as staying faithful to each other. This whole experience could change your life for the better. If you truly love each other, you will miss one another and you will be closer than ever and will never want to be apart again!
Just remember that you are not breaking up, you are just taking a break. The fact that your boyfriend would rather take a break from the relationship rather than lose you, shows that he does care about you a lot.
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