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Spice up your love life

So, you want to get closer to your spouse? Too busy or too tired to be intimate? Here are some tips to help you put the SPICE back in your love life.

The moment feels right. Your busy day is at an end. You finally got the kids to bed and slipped into something sexy. You get into bed with your lover and before you know it, Zzzz…. You are sound asleep. The enticement of sleep has won over you sexual desires yet again. Time and energy may not be abundant in your everyday life; luckily, you do not need either to add spice to your sex life that has seemed to have lost is spark. Here are some easy tips to reconnect with your lover and spice up your love life both inside the bedroom and out.

DATE NIGHT: No matter how long you’ve been together, you should never stop going on dates. Set aside a night to treat yourselves to a special night out. Send the kids to a family member’s house for the night. Planning a night of sex and passion can still be special.

GET IT ON anywhere but in your bed: Clear the kitchen counter off and ‘Bake a Cake’ so to speak. Get messy; don’t worry about clean up until morning.

SPONTANEOUS HUGS are always good. For a woman, hug him from behind, wrapping your arms around him and pressing your breasts against his back. The feeling of your breasts can be a major turn on.

REMINISE SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS: Recall past sexual experiences spent with your lover. Remember and re-enact the moments when you had the most ‘FUN’.

FOCUS ON YOUR LOVER: Clear your mind and see how much pleasure you can give your partner. Make a game of it; see if you can make your lover SCREAM!

SHOWER SURPRISES are huge turn on. You don’t have to worry about kids or other distractions n the bathroom.

PLAY A GAME: Find a game you enjoy, or a new game. Add a strip element to it and then a touching, kissing, and licking element. Soon, you will be wrapped up in each others embrace.

EXPLORE A FANTASY: Share a fantasy with your partner. You may be surprised to find that your partner has a similar fantasy. ROLE PLAYING can spice things up.

DIRTY MESSAGES: Send your partner a sexy, dirty text message or e-mail. When you see each other next, IT IS ON!

ANTICIPATION: Before you split ways in the morning, whisper to your partner what you want to do to him/her tonight. Use detail, this should add excitement that will build until the end of the day.

CHANGE IT UP: Switch places in bed, or set rules; like hands only or mouths only night.

GET A GOOD BOOK: Read a sex position book or lovers guide together and try some new things with each other. It can be exciting to let the woman pick out her favorite.

EAR LOBE FUN: Lightly licking the ear lobe and breathing lightly down your partners neck it a great way to get in the mood.

ATTACK YOUR MAN: Nothing turns a man on more than being attacked by his woman. The woman being in control can be the change you need to spice your love life up.

BABY OIL FUN: There is no lube more fun than baby oil. Rub it all over your partner and have a slippery fun time.

GETTING CAUGHT: The fear of getting caught can be exciting. Don't be too inappropriate, but have fun.

ROLE PLAYING: Playing out fantasies can be fun for you both. Get back together with your lover in the bedroom. Turn the lights out and imagine you are somewhere exciting. Who said relationship advice couldn't be fun?

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Thank you so much for all your hard work, I truly dont know what I would have done without your help. Like so many other people Im just so sorry I did not find you sooner. You are a very warm hearted and kind man that is so gifted. Once again thank you PRIEST ODUMA, and all the best for the future. Nickolas TEXAS CONTACT PRIEST ODUMA VIA EMAIL SPELLOFSOLUTION1@YAHOO. COM OR CALL HIM ON +2348153363047

  about 8 years ago

I am Julietta Yong a citizen of Mexico but now reside in USA, i have been in a relationship with fiance for seven years, he suddenly started behaving violently and when i tried correcting him, he beat me up and broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before five days, that my ex will return to me before five days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the fourth day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is Olorunoduduwaspiritualtemple@gmail. com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything:

  about 9 years ago

I was having a boyfriend. We were known for long time only through phone. Suddenly through some event we met together and we promised we will be together for ever. Both of us are married and not satisfied with the present spouse. But because of some misunderstanding I quarreled with him and humiliated him in front of his friends. After that I realized my mistake and apologized with him like anything. He told me he will try to forget everything. After that we met once and he promised me everything happened because of misunderstanding and now we will together for ever.But after that we never met each other. when we plan to meet some hindrance will happen then it will stop. Also no proper communication. But for me he is my everything. He is the only one who gave such a good satisfaction in my life. I wanted him. I wanted him to meet me, to have sex with me, love me everything. He is very good.and l know He was made for me. But some hindrance keep keeping us apart. i tried to get close to him but nothing was working out until one day i heard about a spell caster called prophetharry@ymail. com, i decide to try his love spell and definitely it worked out perfectly for me, it never took time for the spell to start working, after some few days this guy i am loving came to me and wanted us to start dating, we are in love now, our lover is so tight that nothing can brings us apart, this love spell is wonderful shadonna

  about 9 years ago

Very nice J.M. Going to try some of your suggestions....Thanks.

  about 1 decade ago
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