Girls like and expect initiative. If you look better, (read: beyond the physique), you can see them standing with their friends in clubs, having or pretending to have fun but, they are actually, waiting for something exciting to happen. They are hoping that something exciting is going to happen, that someone will sweep them off their feet.

If you think that girls play the active role in seduction and sex, you are wrong. Less she has to do in the game of seduction and less you expect from her - stronger your game is. Take control and success will come. Girls love dominant men, both in seduction and relationship.

Here are some examples. When you want to do something, never ask permission. ''Would you like a drink?'' or ''Can I sit here?'' is not good tactic. Just do it. When you have to decide something, like picking a restaurant or a movie, don't wait for her to do it, don't ask her what does she think. Do it yourself. Propose a restaurant, pick a movie. She will like that even if she would not decide the same thing. She likes to follow your lead. If she is uncomfortable in some situation, like when you are making out in a club and you sense that she doesn't like the fact that people can see you - take the lead, take her somewhere more discreet.

You need to take care of her comfort and feeling all the time. Questions about how she feels won't help, you need to pay attention on her body language and try to sense things. Sharpen your skills in that by trying and thinking about it. Use all your senses. It pays off triple.

Don't focus your leadership only on girls. Become a leader. Pay attention to people all the time, try to make them feel best possible in every situation. If a girl is wearing high heels and she is standing for some time already, do not just ask her if she wants to sit down. She will probably refuse in order not to look like you picked her up and her friends are here too, or some other reason. Try saying ''Let's go sit over there for a couple of minutes.'' It is less complicated for her just to follow, than deciding if she actually wants it or not. So, you took initiative, you didn't forced her into anything, but you made it to isolate her from friends so you have better environment for seducing.

Using the similar tactics... It's 3 AM, people start leaving, everybody is hungry now and you just tell her that you are going to get something to eat and she can join you. When that goes well, you are almost home. In a different scenario, you would ask her if she is hungry, if she would like to go eat, what would she like, where to go... That scenario is bad, because she can then think of reasons why she should not go. Don't be the one who asks - be the leader!

When your EQ (emotional intelligence) gets stronger, start recognizing how she feels and become a brave man who takes initiative - you become the guy which girls can't wait to meet and be around. Take the lead in your interactions with people and your success with women will get drastically improved.