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In this article, I'm going to share with you one of my favorite techniques for getting laid quickly as a guy who's struggling to be successful with women. For a long time, I couldn't get laid to save my life, and then I figured out this technique with the help of a friend.
It's a technique known as "Boyfriending," and it essentially makes a woman feel like you've been her boyfriend for years, even if you're only on your first date.
Note that the success of this technique is ultimately reliant on how well you establish rapport, and make the woman feel comfortable in your presence.
The way the boyfriending technique works is mostly by touch. The human mind is extremely touch-focused. If you know how to use the power of touch to make someone feel comfortable in your presence, they will immediately like you more. This is a much understated aspect of dating that many guys who struggle with women don't realize.
With the boyfriending technique, you touch women in certain places (don't worry - they're all acceptable) that make her feel as though she's known you for years. Politicians, actors, and other charismatic figures know instinctively how to use this method to get people to like them.
You'll notice for example how a politician touches someone on the shoulder or the back - even if he's just met that person. While this isn't the boyfriending technique specifically, it's still a way of getting someone to feel comfortable in your presence through the use of touch.
Have you ever noticed how sometimes, when two people know each other really well and have been dating for a while, they'll touch each others' faces, or brush hair out of each others' eyes? This is kind of how the boyfriending method works. You'll be touching a woman gently on her forehead, say, to brush hair out of her eyes. Or you'll wipe a small crumb of food out of the corner of her mouth.
By using touch in this special way, you'll begin to make her realize that you are a safe guy, one she can feel comfortable with. (And remember, you need to be sure to respect her boundaries and listen when she tells you "NO" about touching her. That's extremely important.)
But the idea behind the boyfriending technique is that you'll use it inconjunction with other techniques which work to establish rapport, make a girl feel comfortable in your presence, and ultimately go home with you.
If you're interested in learning more about this technique and others which will increase your success with women, I highly recommend reading as much as you can about becoming an alpha male.
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