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The Key To Being Irresistible To Men
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What is the key to being irresistible to men? I recently spoke with a man about his courtship with a woman he absolutely adored. I asked him what was it about her. His reply? "I could not resist her resistance". If you want to know how to be irresistible, there is your answer. Offer up some resistance.

Men want to win. They want to win the heart of the woman. If it comes too easily, this is when he loses interest and often pulls away. There isn't much fun in that at all. This is why it's so important to resist him. It makes you hard to get. This is not a game. Your heart shouldn't be easy to get in the first place. It's valuable and you shouldn't just give it away to a man who hasn't put in the effort. You are the prize.

Resistance means not jumping through hoops every time he calls. It means if you have plans with the girls, you keep them and don't ditch them because you want to see him. Resistance means if he invites you to go somewhere that you aren't that crazy about, you aren't going simply to please him. You decline offers if they don't really suit you. I don't like sports. I can't help it, I just don't. A guy could have tickets to the Super Bowl and I would turn him down. I am not going along just to be in his presence.

The fact of the matter is men fall in love in your absence, not your presence. This is when they think about you. When they think about you their imaginations fill in the gaps. Usually with positive things. If you are always there jumping to be with him when ever humanly possible, he doesn't have time to think about you. If you offer no resistance, you offer no challenge. Men love a challenge. They simply can't resist it.

Men also like mystery. A woman that jumps right into a relationship with her heart is no mystery. She is an open book. Resistance actually builds up attraction in a man. It is the key to being irresistible to men. Resistance also show self control. A woman with control of herself and her life is very very attractive to men and is hard to resist. He will put in effort to be a part of her world. He becomes challenged to get her attention.


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