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The Mr Nice Guy Is Still Chafing People On Dating Sites And Blogs
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The Mr Nice Guy is Still Chafing People on Dating Sites And Blogs

Mr. Nice guy is everywhere. If you are married or are a genuinely nice day, this has nothing to do with you. If you are a single woman, especially one that is stuck using the online dating sites to find potential dates and mates, then this is all for you.

Let's get one thing very clear and very quickly: Mr. Nice guy is not who he advertises himself to be. He will message you and then add in a few snarky little comments about why you will not respond to him. Or, he will make sure that you know that he is a real nice guy right upfront with his profile which will not only tell you how he qualifies as such but exactly what kind of woman you probably are for not reading that profile and immediately falling in love.

Nice Guy will also offer some "helpful" advice on your profile, advice you won't even have to ask for. He will tell you about the problems that you have with your desires or how you are ruling him out by listing your preferences and your dislikes. You harpy! How dare you suggest that men be no more than fifty miles away from your home or that they be taller than you. That means that you are discriminating against all of the "nice guys" that live a billion miles away or are taller, shorter, fatter or thinner than what you listed. No matter what you say you are looking for, he will find a reason that he does not measure up for some reason and will blame that directly on you. Remember, this is a man who has not even met you yet and if he keeps this up, he is unlikely to meet anyone. And there is the whole issue. Mr. Nice Guy is not having any success but instead of being realistic and looking for reasons, he is ready to blame it on everybody around him, all under the guise of being persecuted for his "niceness".

We are on to you, Mr. Nice Guy. The internet connects millions to one another with nothing more in common than the horror stories that come from dating and the curious creature that you represent. Real nice guys never have to say those words to anyone. They don't make backhanded comments or thinly veiled attacks on women they do not know. But, you go ahead and cling to your hurt feelings and the millions of reasons why nice guys like "you" will never win. Until you realize that you are not a nice guy, the faster you might be able to learn to become one.


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Wow, very interesting.

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  about 1 decade ago

i could spend hours and hours and hours going on about all of the problems i am having with "the nice guys" on the dating sites. i am to the point that i might be stuck in my house with the dog for the rest of my life.

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  about 1 decade ago

I had no idea it was that rough out there.

  
  about 1 decade ago

Lolz well let the women do the choosing. If she dont like you fellas she dont like you.

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  about 1 decade ago
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