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Top 3 Mistakes to Avoid When Attracting Guys

When it comes to attracting guys, women often make common mistakes that end up just the man away. If there’s a man you’re interested in and you’re hoping that he would be attracted to you as well then here are a few mistakes you want to avoid.

Mistake #1: Trying too hard and pretending to be someone that you’re not

Some women think that being too sexy and flirty is the way to get a man’s attention and a fool-proof plan when attracting guys. If that’s not your style then you’re going to look desperate and trying too hard.

The thing is, men are not really attracted to women who try to act out and kiss up to them. They don’t think that women who complain, act all sultry and coy, and pretend to be “all-that” are the most attractive women in the room. You can be sexy and flirty without overdoing it or without looking desperate for attention.

There’s no need to act like he’s God’s gift to women or make him think you’re easy just to get him to go out with you. On the contrary, such acts will lower your status to a man and he’ll see you nothing more as someone he can have a one-night stand with.

Mistake #2: Sharing your feelings way too early

You’re having a great conversation with him and you feel like he’s enjoying himself as well. Does that mean you can blurt out that you really, really like him?

No, because that would make him think that you’re the clingy and desperate type. He may think that you’re the kind of woman who wants to snag the next man she sees because she feels like her biological clock is ticking away. Or you could be the kind of woman that just wants a man because she’s lonely and any man would do.

If he feels that you’re rushing into a relationship then he’s going to run and not look back. You need to relax and just let things be for now. See where it goes and don’t rush into anything.

Mistake #3: Trying to convince him to like you

Sometimes, people just don’t click. If you feel like you and this guy just don’t click, sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. If you feel that he’s not really into you, don’t waste your time trying to convince him to like you.

Of course it’s not easy. After all, you’re really into him but he doesn’t feel the same way about you. But trying to get him to like you isn’t the answer. What if it’s the other way around? What if a guy is into you but you’re not into him? He tries to win your affections but it only ends up annoying you.

That’s how he may feel. When it comes to attracting guys, there are times when things just don’t work out and you have to leave it at that. You can’t change his mind if he doesn’t feel the same way about you.

Chasing him or kissing up to him won’t work because that would only annoy him and again, it will make you look desperate.

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