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Ways To Ask A Girl Out
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Ways to Ask A Girl Out

How you ask a girl to go out with you on a date is important to make your date successful. Also, you should be confident in yourself whether she accepts are refuses your invitation.

You should have a mindset like, “Hey, I am going to enjoy my life today, no matter whether she will go out with me or not.”

You should not be afraid of being rejected by her. You will appear lack of confidence if you think too much about why she can refuse to go out with you.

There is an old saying that you should expect for the best and prepare for the worst.

First off, I will give you examples on how not to ask a girl to go out with you. See the below examples:

  1. I am not as good as Mr. X. I think that I am not good enough for you. But I really want to spend an evening with you. Can you please go out with me?
  2. I know that you have lots of work and you are too busy even in weekends. But if you have a little time for me, I want to take you out for a dinner on Saturday night.
  3. I find that we have lots of common interests. Don’t you want to have a drink with me?
  4. Would you mind if I ask you to go out with me for a dinner?

All these questions are extremely negative. By asking these types of questions, you are subconsciously telling her that you have already prepared yourself for a negative answer from her. Further, she may think that you have been single for a long time.

This is what you don’t want her to think about you. Another ugly fact is she may consider you as a loser who is trying his luck with her. If a person pleads us too much, we tend to put him in a ‘loser’ category. Women think this way, too.

Here is how you should approach a girl to go out with you:

  • This weekend I am going the French (or whatever you like) restaurant with my friends. If you are free, you can join us. It will be lots of fun for all of us.
  • I have read plenty of positive reviews of this movie. It must be a great movie to watch. I am planning to watch this movie on this weekend. What are you going to do this weekend?
  • I love to go to the beach. But due to the work load, I have not gone to the beach for a long time. Finally, I have planned to go to the beach this weekend. Would you like to have fun with me there?

There are just ideas on how to ask a girl go out with you. You can make some changes with all these there approaches. The basic idea is not to pressurize her to join you. Instead, you should make her think that you have an exiting life beyond her.

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