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What Men Want In A Relationship

Have you ever looked at your man and wondered, what does he really want from me? A long term committed relationship is a big deal to a man and there are certain things he does expect if he is to take it to the next level. Understand men better by knowing 4 things that men want in relationships.

1: Men want a woman with a sense of humor

If you're in a long term relationship with a man, odds are that he is serious, focused and goal oriented. But when he is with you, he wants to be able to let his guard down, relax and de-stress. He wants to let loose his playful side. A man wants a woman who can laugh at his jokes, make some of her own and understand his wit and humor. A man will be more attracted to and like a woman who can see the lighter side of life and bring out the fun in him.

2: Men dislike playing games

No no I don't mean sports or computer games. I mean the games that women play to see how much their man appreciates or likes them. Men hate it when women are vague about their needs and wants. It is fun at first but overdoing it just makes them frustrated. Our line of reasoning is, if you don't tell us what you want, don't get mad when we don't give it to you. We don't know what you're thinking about so tell us! Many men have left their women because they confuse him to no end and get upset when their needs are not met. If you want something say it!

3: Men want some romance

Men are all business and seriousness in their careers, but when it comes to relationships, all men want some degree of romance. Once in a while, buy him a present or token of affection. Whip up his favourite meal and instead of telling him how your day went, tell him you're happy he's there for you. A romantic gesture once in a while will pay huge dividends in the future because men will remember the event. To him, it is a big deal simply because he didn't expect it and it was a sweet gesture. Boys may be made of slugs, snails and puppy dog tails but real men are made of dedication, passion and romance. Inject some into your relationship because your man will hold you all the more dear.

4: Men H-A-T-E manipulation!

The days of playing with boys and calling them a week later are over. Real men don't want to be manipulated into thinking that they have a shot when they don't and thinking they don't have a shot when they do. Stop all the things you used to do to get them to chase you because if he wants you, he will. A grown man knows what he wants and will work to achieve it as long as he knows he has a reasonable chance to succeed. Play around too long and a man will simply move on and leave with the impression that you are childish and immature.

At heart, men are deeper than just sex and food and there are other things that men want in relationships besides just these four things. These four things are but some of the many things that men truly want in a long term committed relationship. Learn them, and you'll have a huge advantage over other women when it comes to understanding men in relationships.

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