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Are you looking for those magic words that will allow you to get your ex back? I'm sure you clicked on this article looking for what to say to get your ex back.

It is not possible!

I know you're hurting. I know things seem dark. I know you are grasping for anything you can to get her back and that's when you fall victim to the programs that waste your money and time telling you how to restore your relationship.

It is not possible!

Here's why. When she's the right girl for you and falls in love, her interest level (something no one talks about) rises to a point where she can see no one but you.

Most of the time when a relationship ends, it is because, via his actions, the guy lowers the interest level. He might be taking her out less, taking her more for granted, be jealous or possessive or a multitude of other things.

The bottom line is she was getting less and less affectionate as time went on and was throwing more and more digs at the guy until she finally just left.

In this scenario, she is not coming back in the way you want her if she comes back at all.

Women understand what they're doing when they break up with you. They calculate their exit strategy for removing themselves from the relationship. Believe me when I tell you that they know exactly what they are doing when they tell you that they need space or it's just not the same anymore or that you two need to take a break.

Basically, she's plotted the ultimate demise of your relationship way before you realized it was going south.

She will never again be in love with you with high interest level as she once was. She can't forget what made her leave in the first place.

We fielded a call from a guy on the dating women radio show that I co-host who was lamenting that he couldn't get his ex back, no matter how hard he tried. It's just sad. His time to realize his relationship was heading for the rocks was way before she told him that it was over.

I know you're probably thinking "I know people who have gotten back together and it worked, why can't it work for me?"

Did it really work? Or did the woman who left get whipped on in the dating scene and decided to come back to the guy that won't stop calling her to get back together? She's not really interested anymore but it's better than being alone and he's just so happy to be there, he puts up with her low interest level (and the insults and slights for the rest of his life that go with low interest level).

Another example from our dating women radio show was a caller from Vancouver who told us of a conversation he overheard from 2 attractive woman at a bar. One woman told the other that she was meeting her ex-boyfriend there because it's nice to have a backup guy if she doesn't do well with the other men she's dating.

I cannot be emphatic enough. Do not waste your money or time on some internet "guru" that is telling you that you can get your ex back because you get one chance, per women, per lifetime!

Remember guys, you're better off taking the money and time you would have spent on some program to get your ex back and using them to find a new girl who can have the high interest level in you that you deserve.


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