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When Is It A Bad Idea To Date My Ex?
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You think you want to date your ex again. You know you still love him and believe that he really does want a second chance. Unfortunately, there's a little voice in the back of your head warning you to hold back and not risk getting hurt again like you were before. When is it a bad idea to date my your again and how will you know it's not just nerves from wanting to avoid the kind of paint that paralyzed you in the aftermath of your breakup? Here are a few questions you should ask that will help you decide if it's a bad idea to date your ex or not.

Do You Believe He Still Loves You?

There's a good chance that a small part of you will always be in love with your ex. No matter how much time has passed there is this little piece of you that holds out hope and still remains madly in love with the one who got away. You don't really have to worry about how you feel about your ex. You need to know how your ex feels about you if you want to make this work and get the most of out your second chance at love and laughter with the one who broke your heart. If you have serious doubts that the love is still there then there is a strong reason to think twice before giving your ex a second chance at something as precious as your heart.

Do You Believe Your Relationship Was Healthy Before?

You know there was something wrong in your relationship or it wouldn't have ended the way it did. But, for the most part, did you feel that your relationship with your ex was a healthy and happy relationship? If you want to save your relationship and make it work this time around, this is an important question to ask and to have answered.

If your relationship wasn't healthy before, are the problems something that you feel could be easily solved? If not, is the relationship really worth saving? How much are you willing to invest in saving a sinking ship? You have to have a healthy foundation in order to build a lasting relationship. That really is the bottom line.

How Much are You Willing to Risk?

Relationships are all about risk. If you know that your ex still loves you and you believe your relationship was healthy before, are you ready to take the risk and put your heart on the line for a second chance at that happy ending?

It's only a bad idea to date your ex when you know that the relationship really has no chance of being the healthy and happy relationship you know you deserve. You don't have to go all in but you do have to be willing to risk something. Now the decision is in your hands. Just how much are you willing to risk to make it happen? When you know the answer to this you'll be prepared to get your ex back and make your relationship work for good this time.


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